Practice Patience

It's the key to intimacy

by M. McMahon

Source: California Psychics

Connecting with another person is one of the most sacred, exciting and spiritually challenging experiences we will go through in this lifetime. Sometimes we are brought the perfect person to teach us exactly what it is that we need to learn about love.

Yet what many of us are challenged by is being patient when it's time to build a relationship. Most of us want to know right away what it will "be." However, rushing the physicality of your connection just creates insecurity, and insecurity is the opposite of intimacy, which is the key to any successful relationship.

Feeling safe is what allows people to move forward, and this feeling can only be built over time. Intimacy has a lot of different levels, and it isn't just about physical connection - though that is an important part. Taking the time to listen and learn about someone new in your life will allow a closeness that is based on respect, in every area, to manifest itself.

So try and enjoy this building of a new relationship as much as the physical aspect. Hormones and fantasies can justify your impulse to jump right into something, but it won't help you find the deeper (lasting!) connection that comes from taking it slowly. So take a deep breath. Be grateful for your initial chemistry. Now slow down your mind - and open your heart.

Trust, and trust more
One of the reasons people who sincerely want a relationship sometimes jump into bed too quickly is that they are afraid if they don't "seal the deal" and bond in the bedroom, they will lose that person's interest. If they can just show they are skilled between the sheets, it will "fix" anything that's askew.

But the truth is, most of us connect compatibility in bed with compatibility in life. If it were as easy as getting and giving good sex, why would any of us talk to each other at all? If you want a love that is built on the simple joy of spending time together, then you must make that the focus of the initial courtship period.

If the connection is there, let it grow. Resist the urge to jump ahead. Everything ebbs and flows. You may feel it more on one date, and less on the next. Keep trusting, and accept the journey to evolve. Don't count dates. Don't analyze every word you say to each other. Trust that clarity will come at the exact right time. Wouldn't you rather spend a long time getting to know one person - and have it last - than have two or three more quick flings that leave you as alone as before?

Think evolution
There is a lot of advice out there about "playing hard to get." The sentiment is right, but the reasoning is often flawed. Making yourself artificially unavailable is like trying to get someone to drink a glass that's half-full. But having a full wonderful life that you slowly integrate a new person into is attractive. That's why your self-care is crucial to nurturing a relationship. Don't drop your life when you sense that your connection is growing. Yes, you might clear your Saturday nights, of course - but dropping plans with friends, giving up your fitness routine, or spending every night at your new love's apartment is just going to tell your new partner - "you are my whole life!" And that's a countdown to an ending - because the pressure becomes unbearable on them. Allow this next level of connection to evolve. Just because the connection is there doesn't mean it's time to change addresses, share finances, or adopt pets together! One day at a time... more will eventually be revealed.

No expectations!
Don't judge the speed of this relationship against anyone else's romances - or measure it by your own past relationships! If you surrender the fact that this is an utterly new relationship unlike any others, your path to love will be yours only - completely unique, and divine. You will relax into a profound freedom. There are only three outcomes to taking it slow: 1) it will grow into a deep and stable love, 2) you will lose interest, 3) the other party will lose interest. If you lose interest, you'll realize it was a good thing you found out before you had a joint credit card with them. If they lose interest, you'll have the clarity to look elsewhere. If it grows into a deep and stable love, it won't matter how long it takes.

Remember, while you're checking your watch and wondering, is this going to be what I want or not?, there is someone else in this story, and you have no idea what they are going through. They may still be emotionally letting go of someone else they had been seeing. They may be cleaning out old photographs that need to be gone from their home before you get invited over. Or they may just be giving their heart time to speak clearly.

So, pull back the expectations and have fun. Because above everything, the pursuit of love can be full of joy, and you get to bring that light. So laugh, smile and relax. Love has a way of arriving right on time.

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Wild Psychic Visions

More things Clairvoyants see
Source: California Psychics

Every now and then our Clairvoyants, who have the gift of seeing the answers to your questions in their mind's eye, get a vision that's so clear, vivid, wild and unusual, or seemingly out of context to what a client is asking that even they find it hard to believe their own eyes!

Getting visions is an everyday occurrence for these Clairvoyants, particularly when they are working. Signs, symbols, pictures and even scenes appear on their inner viewing screen with every reading they do. But sometimes, Samantha ext. 5138 describes, "a vision may seem absolutely preposterous… But, you have to be open to whatever may come your way, you have to tell it like you see it," she reports. "So when a client called me distraught that her mother didn't leave her anything in her will and I saw gold Spanish coins… I told her the loot was in the attic."

"Some visions may seem crazy, but I can't allow any doubt that my visions are not significant, I must believe that they are true," says Marin ext. 5113 who has seen images as bewildering as a windsurfing dog and just last week, a toddler with a bee sting.

All of these out of the ordinary Clairvoyant messages were meaningful or came to pass for the callers, including one of the wildest visions Paisley ext. 9661 ever had during a reading. "I saw a horse in my callers' tiny backyard, which I also envisioned with train tracks running through it." None of it was possible her caller responded. But she later called Paisley back to say that she had indeed seen a horse in her yard. Her best friend had passed a week earlier and it was a poignant sign to her that all was well. The caller also had realized that the subway ran somewhere deep below her yard.

When a vision is particularly clear, our psychics report, that there may be a higher probability that it will occur as the Clairvoyant sees it. Abrielle ext. 9894 describes a scene she saw while reading for an aspiring young actress. The actress was about to give up on her career, because she hadn't had any work in over a year. "I saw her on the set of a television sitcom. The number three was flashing over the picture I was seeing. It was so clear, I told her not to give up quite yet. Three weeks later she called to say she had landed a significant part."

Lemuria ext. 5114 got a disturbing vision when a caller asked about the success of a business meeting in another state. "I saw a plane crash. I quieted myself to listen to my spirit guides for further information, and I understood that it was imperative that she take an earlier flight. My client promised that she would. She called me again upon her arrival at her meeting, grateful, but hysterical. Her associates, who were booked to leave on the later flight, had been involved in a terrible car wreck on the way to the airport.

Our psychics tell of elaborate visions of love at first sight that come to fruition, of seeing the dark secret in a marriage and pointing the caller directly to the proof, and watching the past, present and future of complicated situations play out before them when they do readings. At times, visions will come in randomly about clients, perfect strangers, friends or family members and for themselves. Sometimes they ignore them, and often they know to act upon them.

Barbie ext. 9295 tells of getting a vision of her current husband before she ever met him. Along with the vision came the understanding, that he would be the only one without a mustache. She realized that her late husband and the men she'd dated seriously all had mustaches. "That vision brought me to my true soulmate," the Clairvoyant says gratefully.

Lucrecia ext. 9326 finds that her most profound visions come when she least expects them. "I may be closing my eyes and dozing off and suddenly a vision will literally zoom into my mind with such frightening detail it stuns me." The psychic Clairvoyant recently had a vision of a woman being chased. She could see the face of the pursuer so she sketched it out and faxed it to her local police department with as much information as possible.

"And blessedly," Samantha reacts, "I only get random visions in my sleep!"

Being Clairvoyant, I know for sure, has served me well in my lifetime, Darcy ext. 9488 sums up. "Seeing the future can be exciting and it can be scary, but to see it, is to be able to change it."

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Reel-to-Real Love

Couples that met on set
Source: California Psychics

Bogie and Bacall, Hepburn and Tracy, Pitt and Jolie - why do some film flames ignite into real-life love affairs? If the "reel" love is based on genuine affinity, it may turn into real love - to the fascination of fans. Who can resist such a fantasy come true?

So how can you tell if an onscreen romance has the potential for true love? Comparing a couple's astrology charts reveals their compatibility. A Sun-sign comparison is only the beginning. Comparing a couple's Moon signs (emotional compatibility), Venus signs (love styles) and Mars signs (sexual compatibility) offers a more comprehensive picture of their relationship potential.

To discover some secrets of reel-to-real love, we'll analyze the charts of three famous film couples. Most recently, Dev Patel and Freida Pinto, who met on the set of Slumdog Millionaire (2008), then the unlikely match of Annette Bening and Warren Beatty, who married shortly after starring together in Bugsy (1991), and stalwart couple Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson, who met in the early '80s on the set of Hanks' TV series Bosom Buddies.

Dev Patel (April 23, 1990), Freida Pinto (October 18, 1984)
The award-winning film about a poor Indian lad, played by Patel, who won a million dollars on a game show against all odds, became a worldwide hit. What made the film even more endearing was the relationship between the boy and his troubled lady love, played by Pinto. Their chemistry was magical.

Patel is a Taurus and Pinto is a Libra. She leads with her intellect, while he has a more earthy approach to life. Looking deeper, we see a case of opposites attract. His Moon in Aries is opposite her Sun in Libra, a compatible tie. (She has Moon in either emotional Cancer or passionate Leo, depending on her time of birth - probably Leo due to her charisma and profession choice.) What's more, Patel's Taurus nature is enticed by Pinto's multiple Scorpio placements: Mercury, Venus, Saturn and Pluto. She's super intense and magnetic, while he's easygoing and grounded. Well, as grounded as having Venus and Mars in fantasy-prone Pisces can be. His practical Taurus nature has a spiritual, imaginative side. He craves a spiritual union with a deep emotional connection, which he gets from Pinto's Scorpio influences. Also, the water (Pisces-Scorpio) emphasis between them deepens their bond, but makes it hard to be objective. Mutual stubbornness and the need for control are challenges as well.

As for sex - no problem there! Taurus and Scorpio is a compelling combination. Plus, Pinto's Mars in Capricorn appreciates a strong, earthy man, like a Taurus, while Patel's Mars in Pisces makes him sensitive and adaptable to his lover's needs, a must for a Libra-Scorpio woman. It's a soulful relationship that may well survive both their youth and the glare of Hollywood lights.

Annette Bening (May 29, 1958), Warren Beatty (March 30, 1937)
In Bugsy, Beatty plays mobster Bugsy Siegel, who falls madly in love with a starlet, played by Bening. Their onscreen chemistry was playful and funny, which isn't a surprise considering their Sun signs - he's a fiery Aries and she's a flirtatious Gemini. Obviously their chemistry deepened into love because they married a year after the film was released. Even better, they're still married after 17 years, an anomaly in Hollywood.

So what was Bening's secret to capturing this charismatic hunk, well-known for his playboy antics? Besides having more than her fair share of charm, compliments of Sun in Gemini, she has Venus in Aries, which is a strong love tie with Beatty. They have plenty of fire between them. They also have some opposite energy, similar to Patel and Pinto. Bening's Moon in Libra is opposite Beatty's Sun in Aries. Since Libra is the sign of partnership, she brings out the urge to merge - on all levels - in her Aries man. Additionally, his Mars in adventurous Sagittarius is opposite her Sun in Gemini, heightening the passion (and irritations) between them. As for their emotional bond, Beatty has Moon in secretive Scorpio, not the easiest placement for emotional openness. Fortunately, Bening's Mars in sensitive Pisces is in tune with his Moon in Scorpio, a Water-sign tie. In romance, his Venus in Taurus craves stability in love. He seems to have found it in his smart and talented Gemini partner.

Tom Hanks (July 9, 1956), Rita Wilson (October 26, 1956)
This Cancer-Scorpio couple met on the set of Bosom Buddies, but began their relationship in earnest while filming Volunteers (1985). They married in 1988. Their Suns being in Water signs is a deep emotional tie. Also, Wilson has Moon in either Cancer or Leo, which means she either shares Hank's Moon in Leo or his Sun in Cancer. Either way, it's a remarkable indication of emotional affinity. What's more, they both have Mars in Pisces, which heightens their intuitive-sexual bond. The challenge is a tendency to overlook problems instead of facing them head-on. Still, it creates an imaginative working relationship between two actors.

As for their love styles, they're both highly analytical, but his Venus in Gemini can clash with her Venus in Virgo. She's the practical one in the relationship and may get impatient with his intellectual approach to working things out. Fortunately, the Water placements in their charts keep them focused on their feelings, which makes them inseparable. Having been married for over 20 years, they're obviously doing something right!

It's intriguing when you can sense a deeper connection between two actors than just the usual onscreen chemistry. With the couples mentioned above, real love was apparently written in the stars.

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Tarot Reading for today, john:

July 21, 2009 Here's your Tarot Reading for today, john: Love Touchstone Career The Hermit The Tower The Moon

Today | This Week

There's a great deal of aggression on the horizon in your personal life today, john! Under the auspices of the Tower, people are arguing and tearing each other apart on all sides... (online dating agency?). Your partner is troubled (Agency will not let us exchange addresses even after 80 letters each over 18 months & VISA blocks 8 attempts to pay for 20 more e-mails?, your friends aggressive, and your family members unpleasant. With the Hermit symbolizing your state of mind, you prefer to keep a low profile and keep out of the way of such behaviors... Cut yourself off from the action and content yourself with watching the commotion from afar - it could prove to be very instructive. On a professional level, the association of the Moon and the Tower is not exactly a happy combination. An unexpected event is threatening a project close to your heart or even your job. Whatever happens, you must refrain from getting into an argument with your colleagues, because that will only damage your interests. It's a bad day for your career. The Eclipse promises to shake things up!