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Tuesday, June 2, 2009
A Marriage-Go-Round
Source: California Psychics
If you have a good marriage, sometimes you just need to trust the relationship, especially when the communication and listening skills between you and your partner appear to be breaking down. Partnerships can be rife with misunderstandings, but if you know from experience that yours is fundamentally strong, don't allow family, friends or acquaintances to stir the pot, Diamond ext. 9379, a fourth generation psychic strongly suggests.
Sometimes misunderstandings are really quite innocent, but without keeping up the work it takes to sustain a marriage, which often just comes down to listening, even the best of marriages can run into trouble, she warns.
There are times when callers just can't see situations clearly, reports Diamond referring to a recent new client Pilar (not her real name), a fitness instructor in her early twenties, who had been happily married to Edward (not his real name) for three blissful years… until she noticed a sudden change in her husband's behavior.
Upset, perplexed and having lost faith in her husband much too quickly, Pilar reached out to Diamond asking, "Is my husband cheating on me?" Without a moment's hesitation she continued with a litany of questions: "What's her name? Why is he doing this? Why doesn't he answer his cell phone? Why can't I get in touch with him at the office when he says he's working late? What happened to us?"
As the Medium, Clairvoyant and Clairaudient tuned into Pilar's voice and began envisioning the answers, she did not get a dishonest image of Edward with a scandoulous secret love life. Instead, she saw white lab coats, surgical scrubs and doctors with medical instruments in their hands. "He's not having an affair, he's seeing a doctor…" It was an answer Pilar would not accept.
Pilar cut Diamond off, saying that her vision was impossible.
"It's a very clear image," Diamond reiterated about the scene that seemed to be playing out in front of her as if it were on a movie screen. "In fact I see him sneaking out to see the doctor."
Pilar called Diamond back later the same week, certain that she would have a different message for her. But again, the psychic's vision was the same. Pilar then told Diamond that she had confronted her husband about the cell phone and office phones. She didn't believe anything he said, so she hired a deterctive. All of her best girlfriends were sure that Edward's sudden, unusual behavior indicated a straying husband.
"You don't need to hire a detective!" Diamond told Pilar completely sure of the truth of her visions. "He is going to tell you what he is hiding from you, and when you find out, you will be quite surprised. It's not a bad thing," Diamond tried to assure her caller. "I don't see any reason to distrust him so intently."
The following week, Pilar called Diamond again to tell her that she had confronted Edward again. He denied the affair, but gave her no further explanation for his unusual behavior. Out of sheer frustration Pilar had packed her bags and was now staying with her best friend.
"You are making a mistake. You need to work on your communication with Edward and help him understand that his mysterious ways are making you doubt the strength of your marriage. This separation did not have to happen!"
Pilar disagreed saying, "I'm getting proof. The detectives should have something for me soon! "
The following morning Diamond got a call from a man she had never spoken to before. He said his wife had just moved out on him and he didn't have a clue as to what had happened. Diamond surprised herself with an instant adamant response to the caller (who said his name was Sam)... "This separation did not have to happen!"
Sam told her that he had been planning a surprise for his wife. Diamond told him that she saw him having some sort of medical procedure. "I also see that you have an usually strong support system," the psychic revealed.
Sam responded, "Wow! Yes, it's all true. My employees have helped me keep every thing top secret. My wife doesn't have a clue... I can't believe you know all of that." He began to relax even more with Diamond and excitedly told her, "I'll be frank with you, I had an operation to reverse infertility. I don't want my wife to know because I don't want her to be disappointed if it doesn't work. We've been trying to have a baby…"
At that, Diamond spoke quickly, hoping her call with Sam wouldn't end before she could say, "You need to tell her the truth now!"
Then she heard the click of the phone.
To Diamonds great surprise and relief, Pilar and Edward contacted Diamond together just days later. "We can't believe how good you are," they chimed together happily. "I'm back home," Pilar said, "and, you won't believe what just happened. We were going over the bills together and I admitted that I had been calling California Psychics. Edward laughed and admitted that he had done the same."
Edward broke in to the conversation, saying, "Except you might remember me as Sam! How were you able to tell both of us the exact same thing?"
"I'm just the messenger," Diamond said tearfully. "I kept seeing that you had a loving, faithful union and I didn't want you to give up on that."
The couple admitted that they had learned some big lessons. And, Diamond is still in awe that the universe chose to send both callers to her.
Monday, June 1, 2009
Weekly LoveCast Reveal the real you!
Source: California Psychics
Cooperation is the challenge for romance at the start of the week, when willfulness and jealously can get in the way of love. Passion heats up mid-week and then skyrockets during the Full Moon in fiery Sagittarius this weekend. Dare to be yourself!
Week of June 1 - 7, 2009
Gemini: Romance is hot and complicated at the start of the week, when compromise is difficult. Promote your creative project on Tuesday. Your instincts take over to rev up passion mid-week. A sexy night out fires you up on Friday! The twosome energy of the Full Moon helps you strengthen or attract a relationship this weekend.
Cancer: An issue with a family member may arise on Monday. A cozy night in at your abode can deepen love on Tuesday. Romance skyrockets mid-week through Friday. Creating an enticing ambiance can inspire a passionate interlude. Your courageousness inspires love during this weekend's Full Moon, so do something out of the ordinary.
Leo: Rash words can derail romance (and other relationships) on Monday, but a heartfelt expression of love makes romance bloom on Tuesday. A clash of wills is likely mid-week, when your stubborn streak emerges. Passion is hot but complicated on Friday. Your powers of attraction draw multiple admirers (or one special paramour!) this weekend.
Virgo: A problem over money may arise with your sweetie or business partner on Monday. Your creativity (in the bedroom?) enhances a romantic encounter on Tuesday. Your mystique makes you irresistible mid-week. Flirting heats up passion on Friday. It's party time during the Full Moon this weekend, so show off your influence by arranging a gathering.
Libra: You're feeling especially willful on Monday but ready for a loving interlude on Tuesday, when your powers of attraction are strongest. Feelings are deep and instinctual mid-week. Romance needs an expression of your deepest feelings on Friday. Your words inspire romance during the Full Moon this weekend, so show off your eloquence.
Scorpio: You feel unusually antsy for a change on Monday. An intimate locale makes love bloom on Tuesday. An argument turns into a passionate encounter mid-week. Your powers of attraction draw an array of admirers on Thursday and especially on Friday. Naughty playfulness makes you hard to resist during the Full Moon this weekend.
Sagittarius: Confusion during a group endeavor can be irritating on Monday. Friends bring joy on Tuesday. A sexy, serene ambiance makes passion soar mid-week. Your intuition is especially strong on Friday, when you might feel like reminiscing about a past relationship. Your charisma is on fire during the Full Moon in your sign this weekend.
Capricorn: How your career affects your relationship will be the focus at the beginning of the week. Tuesday is a delightful time for a romantic rendezvous. Romance can be found during a gathering of friends mid-week. Friday is especially hot. Throw caution out the door and dare to express your feelings during this weekend's Full Moon,
Aquarius: Love can be found during a class or spiritual activity at the start of the week. You'll be irritated easily on Wednesday. A work project can turn into a romantic evening on Thursday or Friday, but things can get complicated. A gathering of friends or community activity prompts a romantic interlude during this weekend's Full Moon.
Pisces: An artsy atmosphere inspires love at the beginning of the week. Share your creativity and sense of style! You're a magnet for romance mid-week, when your lusty side comes out to play. Just know you deserve the best in a partner. Your whimsical sense of humor draws admirers during the Full Moon this weekend.
Aries: A clash of wills can derail romance at the start of the week. Love resumes its sweetness on Tuesday. Intimacy deepens mid-week, and a spontaneous tryst can rev up romance on Friday. This weekend, the Full Moon makes you antsy for a romantic escape, so plan a getaway with a lover or friend.
Taurus: Your sense of style draws admirers at the beginning of the week - if you don't get into a tug-of-war over control. Your sensuality fires up a romantic rendezvous mid-week, either with your sweetie or someone new. This weekend's Full Moon brings out your wild side, so go for what (or who!) you want.
1 (new) Up / YouTube - UP HERE - UNCENSORED full version
Directed by Pete Docter Bob Peterson and starring Edward Asner, Jordan Nagai, Christopher Plummer, Delroy Lindo and John Ratzenberger - At age 78, life seems to have passed Carl Fredricksen by, until a twist of fate (and a persistent 8-year old named Russell) gives him a new lease on life. (Buena Vista Pictures Distribution)
2 (1) Night at the Museum: Battle of the Smithsonian / YouTube - Night at the Museum: Battle of the Smithsonian (2009 ...
Directed by Shawn Levy and starring Ben Stiller, Amy Adams, Owen Wilson, Hank Azaria, Robin Williams - Ben Stiller returns to the role of night watchman Larry Daly in this sequel to the 2006 family film NIGHT AT THE MUSEUM. This adventure takes the action to Washington D.C, where things at the Smithsonian aren't quite as quiet as one (20th Century Fox)
3 (new) Drag Me to Hell / YouTube - Sam Raimi's Drag Me To Hell Official Trailer With ...
Directed by Sam Raimi and starring Lorna Raver, Dileep Rao, Alison Lohman, Justin Long, David Paymer - Christine Brown is an ambitious L.A. loan officer with a charming boyfriend, professor Clay Dalton. Life is good until the mysterious Mrs. Ganush arrives at the bank to beg for an extension on her home loan. Should Christine follow her instincts and give the old woman a break? Or should she deny the extension to impress her boss, Mr. Jacks, and get a leg-up on a promotion? Christine fatefully chooses... (Universal Pictures)
4 (2) Terminator Salvation / YouTube - Terminator Salvation Extended Movie Trailer
Directed by McG and starring Christian Bale, Sam Worthington, Anton Yelchin, Bryce Dallas Howard, Moon Bloodgood, Common, Jane Alexander and Helena Bonham Carter - John Connor is the man fated to lead the human resistance against Skynet and its army of Terminators. But the future that Connor was raised to believe in is altered in part by the appearance of Marcus Wright, a stranger whose last memory is of being on death row. Connor must decide whether Marcus has been sent from the future, or rescued from the past. As Skynet prepares its final onslaught, Connor and Marcus both embark on an odyssey that takes them into the heart of Skynet's operations, where they uncover the terrible secret behind the possible annihilation of mankind. (Warner Bros. Pictures Distribution)
5 (3) Star Trek / YouTube Star Trek - Official Trailer 2 [HD]
Directed by J.J. Abrams and starring Chris Pine, Zachary Quinto, John Cho, Ben Cross, Bruce Greenwood - The fate of the galaxy rests in the hands of bitter rivals. One, James Kirk, is a delinquent, thrill-seeking Iowa farm boy. The other, Spock, was raised in a logic-based society that rejects all emotion. As fiery instinct clashes with calm reason, their unlikely but powerful partnership is the only thing capable of leading their crew through unimaginable danger, boldly going where no one has gone ... (Paramount Pictures)
6 (4) Angels & Demons YouTube - Angels and Demons - In Theaters 5.15.09
Direct by Ron Howard and starring Tom Hanks, Ewan McGregor, Ayelet Zurer, Stellan Skarsgard, Pierfrancesco Favino, Nikolaj Lie Kaas, and Armin Mueller-Stahl - When Robert Langdon discovers evidence of the resurgence of an ancient secret brotherhood known as the Illuminati -- the most powerful underground organization in history -- he also faces a deadly threat to the existence of the secret organization's most despised enemy: the Catholic Church. When Langdon learns that the clock is ticking on an unstoppable Illuminati time bomb, he jets to Rome, where he joins forces with Vittoria Vetra, a beautiful and enigmatic Italian scientist. Embarking on a nonstop hunt through sealed crypts, dangerous catacombs, deserted cathedrals and even to the heart of the most secretive vault on earth, Langdon and Vetra will follow a 400-year-old trail of ancient symbols that mark the Vatican's only hope for survival. (Sony Pictures Releasing)
7 (5) Dance Flick / Dance Flick NEW Official Movie Site Trailer HQ
Directed by Damien Dante Wayans and starring Damon Wayans Jr. , Craig Wayans, Shoshana Bush, Essence Atkins, Affion Crockett - The Wayans brothers set out to parody movies like "Step Up" and "Save the Last Dance." (MTV Films, Paramount Pictures)
8 (6) X-Men Origins: Wolverine / X-Men Origins: Wolverine Trailer
Directed by Gavin Hood and starring Hugh Jackman, Liev Schreiber, Tim Pocock, Troye Sivan, Tahyna Tozzi - "X-Men Origins: Wolverine" tells the story of Wolverine's epically violent and romantic past, his complex relationship with Victor Creed, and the ominous Weapon X program. Along the way, Wolverine encounters many mutants, both familiar and new, including surprise appearances by several legends of the X-Men universe. (20th Century Fox Distribution)
9 (7) Ghosts of Girlfriends Past / Ghosts Of Girlfriends Past - Official Trailer [HD]
Directed by Mark Waters and starring Matthew McConaughey, Jennifer Garner, Breckin Meyer, Lacey Chabert, Robert Forster - Celebrity photographer Connor Mead loves freedom, fun and women... in that order. A committed bachelor who thinks nothing of breaking up with multiple women on a conference call, Connor's mockery of romance proves a real buzz-kill for his kid brother, Paul, and a houseful of well wishers on the eve of Paul's wedding. Just when it looks like Connor may single-handedly ruin the wedding, he is visited... (Warner Bros. Pictures Distribution)
10 (8) Obsessed / YouTube - Obsessed Movie Trailer
Directed by Steve Shill and starring Beyonce Knowles, Idris Elba, Ali Larter, Jerry O'Connell, Christine Lahti - Derek Charles, a successful asset manager who has just received a huge promotion, is blissfully happy in his career and in his marriage to the beautiful Beth. But when Lisa, a temp worker, starts stalking Derek, everything he's worked so hard for, are placed in jeopardy. (Sony Pictures Releasing)
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Astrology - June 2009 Forecast
A combination of Air and Earth energies throughout June can turn your brainpower into practical applications. It's time to put your ideas to work. At the other end of the spectrum, spirituality, compassion and ideals are heightened by the Jupiter-Neptune merger that continues through July.
It's a great influence from which to view your ideals, dreams and destiny - if you don't ignore reality by overlooking the facts.
Transit tales
At the beginning of the month, Sun in airy Gemini and Venus in fiery Aries make flirting fun. Romance has plenty of joie de vivre, but stability may be in short supply - until Venus enters steadfast Taurus on June 6, that is. Mars is already in Taurus, and when the two planets meet up mid-month for about 10 days, love gets an extra dose of sizzling sensuality.
Getting physical and enjoying the pleasures of the senses will fire up relationships, especially for Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. Mercury in Taurus from June 1-12 adds to the practical, earthy vibe in communications. Mercury transiting into Gemini on June 13 energizes discussions and travel, except when stodgy Saturn squares Mercury on June 26 and hinders communications and travel plans.
Planets in motion
Jupiter is retrograde from June 15 through October 12, which encourages introspection about your spiritual beliefs, education and long-range aspirations. Because Jupiter is in Aquarius, the sign of the humanitarian, it's an excellent time to think about your role in making the world a better place. It's not the best time, however, to start new business projects unless they have an altruistic focus.
Lunar magic
The Full Moon in Sagittarius on June 7 energizes your sense of adventure. It may be time for a road trip, or at least a change of routine, so try something new. Taking a class can also expand your horizons. The New Moon at last degree of Cancer takes place on June 22. This influence brings a new cycle of energy to home projects and family activities. It can also heighten emotionalism, so strive to stay centered.
Planetary highlights:
June and July: Jupiter conjunct Neptune accelerates spiritual and philanthropic endeavors, and can help you see the bigger picture of your destiny.
June 3: Mars trine Pluto favors financial dealings, healthy endeavors and projects that require intense focus or physical strength.
June 5: Sun square Saturn is a speed bump that can hinder your activities, especially if you're a Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius or Pisces.
June 6: Venus entering Taurus favors physical pleasure, art and environmental projects.
June 7: Full Moon in Sagittarius energizes travel, learning and spiritual activities.
June 8: Venus trine Pluto intensifies romantic and sexual connections.
June 9 - 10: Mercury square Jupiter and Neptune creates a clash between practicality and ideals, especially for Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius.
June 13: Mercury entering Gemini favors communications, travel, logic and learning.
June 15 - 25: Venus conjunct Mars in Taurus energizes sensual trysts, artistic endeavors and environmental projects.
June 15 - October 12: Retrograde Jupiter favors introspection about your spiritual beliefs, education goals and altruistic inclinations, but can be problematic for new business ventures.
June 17 - 18: Sun trine Jupiter and Neptune favors discussions about the future, and accelerates projects involving technology, philanthropy and spirituality.
June 17: Sun square Uranus is a wild card that heightens unpredictability and rebelliousness, especially for Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces.
June 20 - 21: Sun entering Cancer (Summer Solstice) launches the summer season.
June 21 - 22: Venus and Mars trine Saturn favors relationship commitment and financial transactions.
June 22: New Moon in Cancer brings a renewed cycle of energy to home and family activities.
June 23: Sun opposition Pluto can create power struggles, especially for Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn.
June 26: Mercury square Saturn can disrupt communications and travel, especially for Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces.
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Vibrations Matter
Source: California Psychics
Have you ever really thought about some of the terminology we use to describe our moods? If you say that your spirits are "low," people immediately conclude that you are troubled or depressed. However, an extreme victory or positive experience may cause such a "rush" that you are flying "high" for days.
Words such as high, low, rush, up, and down can be used to portray not only how we are feeling, but also describe the vibes in which we are living and emitting.
Everything is energy
Everything that exists, whether or not you can see or touch it, is made up of energy. From the floor that is beneath your feet to the thoughts that run through your mind, it all boils down to energy, and energy is never still.
For all intents and purposes, a floor is solid matter. You can see it, touch it and it supports your weight. Seems like it is just sitting there, serving its flooring purpose, but that doesn't mean that it is still. The energy that makes up the floor is hard at work, moving and vibrating at just the right speed and frequency to maintain its solid structure and physical appearance.
Thoughts are no less real than the floor beneath your feet, but they vibrate at a different speed and frequency. You may not be able to touch them, but that doesn't make them any less substantial. Your body also has its own vibrations. After all, there is a whole lot going on underneath the skin that most of us don't really think about!
Can you feel it?
We all have good days and bad, but have you ever really paid attention to how life tends to flow in relation to your mood? How about when you meet someone for the first time and immediately like or dislike them, without really knowing why? Everyone and everything is throwing off vibrations. Sometimes, we are consciously aware of the resonance and frequency, and the intermingling vibrations that either harmonize or repel. Because like attracts like, the vibes that we emit are similar to a mating call, drawing in people, events and things that exist on the same or similar vibrational plane as our own.
Most times, looking good and feeling good go hand in hand. When we are feeling good about our selves and our lives, we tend to have a bit more confidence and it shows. We are more charismatic, appearing brighter and more beautiful - to ourselves and others. Those "happy to be alive" days are the best. We may dismiss them as luck or a fluke, but the reality is we have kicked our vibrations up a notch, and we are emitting and feeling an energetic boost.
Harmonize energy
When our vibrations are low, we are more tired, pessimistic and can even be mean or depressed. Those vibrations are the energy we project and the energy we attract. This vibe is more likely to cause a bad hair day, get us caught in traffic and possibly top it all off by having our morning coffee spill on us before the big meeting or presentation. We tend to look at the incidents as the cause or source for our state of vibration, but many times it is our vibrations that attract the incidents.
Not all of us are meant to be one of those happy-shiny people who are bouncing off the walls with boundless energy, but each of us does have a positive vibrational groove. We've all experienced that level of harmony before, and with a little effort we can find it, maintain it and even increase it. Like a finely tuned automobile, when our mental and physical energies are in harmony, we hum with personal power.
Change your vibe
Life is probably never going to be easy, but there's no law that states we have to continually add to the chaos and confusion. With a little bit of effort, each and every one of us can be a little better and a little brighter, which will help clear away some of our obstacles or attract what we need to surmount them.
If life isn't going the way you want it to, change it. Put down that never-ending list of everything you have to do, and all the things you don't have for five minutes and simply focus on yourself. Understand that in your life, you are the point of origin - the place where everything begins. Therefore, the vibrations you project are like a magnet, drawing in things of the same frequency. When you truly understand that principle, you will feel a shift in consciousness and your vibrations will begin to change in accordance with that shift.
Words like "can't," "want" and "never" may begin to fade if your quest is one geared toward happiness and improvement. These low frequency words are powerful, particularly in thought, especially if you believe them. They are heavy and limiting, and what they hold down and hold back is your vibrations - the essence of you. Try replacing them with will, can and deserve, and you have just created opportunity rather than obstacle. Believe those words and your vibrations will increase, lighten… and so will you.
A higher frequency
Changing your vibes can be fairly easy, but maintaining that shift may take a little practice. Fortunately, there is opportunity in every thought and every action. Focus on the good things in your life, even when things are tough. Visualize yourself as you want to be. Meditate. Exercise. Recite positive affirmations of your own creation or ones that resonate well with you. Absorb the energy of music that lifts you, pumps you up, or brings you peace. Sing. Dance. These are only a few simple things you can do to raise your frequency, but with consistent and conscious effort, you will be able to measure your improvement and success.
Our perceptions not only influence, but also create our realities. Like a ripple caused by throwing a pebble into water, the vibes we send expand and touch others just as their vibes are flowing and seeking us. Some moments in life seem so perfect. Even though those moments pass, their vibrations can remain. Surround yourself with the people and things that you love and make you feel good and consciously project the same.
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Sexual Exploration
Why it's key to happiness
by Moira McMahonSource: California Psychics
Sex is one of the few universal experiences for nearly all adults, yet it's shrouded in mystery. Who's having it? How much is too much? What's okay and what's not okay? There are magazine articles, films and books upon books about how to do it, when to do it and how to pick the right person to do it with.
Yet something that's missing in all this hot frenzy is that sex starts in the brain. It starts in the individual. It starts with you. The roles we carve out in life and the lives we have in the bedroom are really one and the same because the way we do one thing is the way we do everything.
If you are a giving person in your friendships and workplace, chances are you are giving between the sheets. The same way, if you punish yourself with negative thoughts and self-loathing, chances are your sex life is probably not very satisfying. Your thoughts create your sexual being.
Sexual power
Have you ever met someone who isn't particularly good looking, but they exude a sensuality that everyone around them responds to? They know they are sexy and therefore they are sexy. They own their own sexual power and what's truly a turn on - is that they know themselves. And that is the key to feeling alive, sexual and free all the time. Being free in yourself. The exciting thing is that it works both ways. Your life can free your sexual side and your own sexual exploration can free you.
Fantasy rules!
So how do you open your sexuality to find your truest self? First, love every one of your fabulous fantasies. The mind is the greatest sexual playground of all. We can conjure up any number of scandalous, riveting, gravity-defying scenarios. Let your mind find what interests you and take note of it. Do you often imagine yourself in a dominant role in your fantasy life - or do you like to imagine yourself being dominated by another?
Often our fantasies put us in power in ways we can't obtain in our own lives. If you are usually the ringleader with your family and friends, your fantasies may put you in a place of passivity, or being taken care of intimately by another. Think of the stereotype of a bored housewife reading a romance novel... don't we all have a deep desire to express ourselves sexually?
Instinct
What "turns you on" comes from your intrinsic and the complete unique make-up you possess as a human being. Delight in the patterns you see in yourself. Use your fantasies to embrace every expression you have. Especially examine fantasies that are repetitive. What are they telling you? What should you seek in your life that you can have easily with your fantasies? Your sexual, creative and intellectual powers are the three interwoven ropes of your core self. Use each one to shed light on the other.
What next?
Once you're in tune with your instincts and fantasies, let research take you wherever it leads you. There is great freedom in finding your own personal truth. Your sexual life is part of that journey. You must understand who you are sexually in order to attract your best partner. But along the way, as you discover it, you are likely to attract any number of people into your path. Whatever your boundaries are about the physical sexual acts, each different dynamic you experience while dating and in close relationships are clues to who you really are.
Discovery...
Whether a casual night, a love affair while abroad or a long-term relationship - you will uncover lots of dynamics that work for you. Plus, you'll totally know when a dynamic doesn't suit you. To live your fullest life, you must be brutally honest with yourself about what suits you in your sexual life. For some, this means actually courting the person you really want - not what any book or friend has told you. For others, it means truly telling your partner what excites you and having the courage to hear what excites them too.
When you are in a place where you can share your fantasies with your partner and incorporate some elements into your relationship, you know you have found someone who accepts you for all that you are. That's a powerful connection.
Think back
Remember what kind of people you were attracted to when you were a teenager? At college? Now you may laugh at what turned you on. As we expand and grow, our curiosity can lead us to an even deeper understanding of our sexual selves. There's nothing to be lost by trying a tantra class or a nudist colony or anything you dream up. It's all really an exploration of self. You'll know what works for you and what doesn't. If you are in a committed relationship, talk to your partner. There are lots of classes and DVD's you can enjoy together. Be open to your partner's exploration, too. Don't be threatened by fantasies or curiosity. If your partner is sharing it with you, they are bringing it to you with a desire to enhance your relationship.
The big surprise to spending a little effort in expanding your sexual self is that it affects all the other areas of your life. Just as being in a bad relationship colors your career and other friendships, fully expressing your sexual self ignites your career and makes you more attractive to other people. And what could be more fun than defining your truest sexual desires?