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Your horoscope - Week of August 3, 2009 Another interesting week is coming your way. Communication plays an important part in your progress. Monday, in particular, could be quite intense, as you're keen to get to the bottom of an issue. If you're researching information necessary for a project, you'll be willing to look long and hard to find what you want. If there's a mystery to be solved or if the information is obscure, so much the better. You'll relish the challenge. Monday is also good for discussing work-related problems, as long as you're willing to face the truth of the situation. Resolving such matters may mean a radical transformation, which will open up space for greater success in the future. A Full Moon Eclipse midweek takes place in your social zone. Expect some interesting events associated with friends and friendships. Someone you haven't heard from for some time may reappear, which could upset the apple cart. On another note, this is a good time to review your current peer relationships and assess whether they're helping or hindering you. Others may be doing the same, so there could be a few changes along the way. Friday brings a chance to think about starting a diet.

10 Commandments of Life

A script for true fulfillment

Source: California Psychics

Sometimes it's hard to do the best thing for our own good. After all, we're composed not just of body and mind - but spirit as well. Stress can get us down, and leave us feeling scattered. Yet if you feel disconnected and you aren't getting the most out of your day-to-day efforts, you're not alone.

For most people, finding lasting fulfillment is a lifelong battle. These ten tips can help you win over the outside turmoil and live a happier, more centered life!

1. Listen to your body
There's no "perfect" picture of health. Everyone is different. Get to know your body, and treat it well so that it runs optimally. For instance, if you're craving broccoli, eat it - you might need the iron. Likewise, if you're craving chocolate, you might have a little - dark chocolate in particular has health benefits when it is consumed in moderation.

Whenever your desires are mental, however, you'll want to recognize that. And if you feel "off," you'll want to get to your doctor. Our bodies manifest our states of mind and our emotions, so listen to yours. And if you need help from a doctor or health practitioner you'll find you're better off for having taken that step.

2. Sleep and fitness routine
Getting up - and going to bed - at the same time every day has proven benefits to your body. So does exercise. One popular study revealed that it takes three weeks to build a habit, but only two weeks to break one! Make a sleep-and-exercise routine plan and commit to sticking to it for one month. After that, you may find that your new activities have become habit, and you don't need to force them. This doesn't mean you have to hit the gym every day or approach someone else's idea of physical fitness - just get moving. Walk, run, ride your bike - or do yoga or pilates to increase your stamina and get your endorphins flowing. The method is entirely up to you! Whatever you choose, you'll feel fitter and better-rested - guaranteed.

3. Relax your mind, body and spirit
Meditation means different things to different people. So whether you proceed with a mantra (like in Transcendental Meditation) or try a guided relaxation CD, just carve out a little time for yourself to truly relax and be one with your surroundings. Mornings may be easiest - you may want to consider taking ten minutes first thing when you calculate your wake-up time. But any time will do - just be sure to spend it in solitude. Avoid the computer, television, phone, family or whatever else may distract you. This needs to be a sacred time to clear your mind. Your day will be brighter, and you'll find yourself feeling more centered when and if those stress levels increase.

4. Eat organic - or at least eat right
This doesn't mean you have to go on a diet and eliminate the things you love - remember that all things are good in moderation. Simply make an effort to buy foods that don't contain pesticides. Look for farm raised, untreated meat if you eat it. Include fruits and veggies in your diet, and go easy on the sugar. Choose whole grains instead of white flour. You don't have to get expensive about it, either. These days most grocery stores have affordable organic and/or healthy options. All of these are simple ways to treat your body like the temple that it is - and increase your energy!

5. Approach challenges as opportunities for growth
When something gets harder - at home, in the office, in a relationship - we have the tendency to see the glass as half-empty. But a simple shift in perspective can do wonders for your state of mind. The next time you encounter an obstacle you might want to pause, take a breath and consider what you stand to gain by overcoming it. Once you've done it once or twice, the challenges will seem less stressful - and you'll find that you increasingly feel capable of handling anything that comes your way!

6. Get organized
It's easy to let messes pile up. Whether it's paperwork or dirty clothes, most of us have fallen victim to disorganization at some point or another. And occasionally, these little tasks are bound to fall by the wayside. Does this mean you have to be immaculately neat all the time? No. But everyone stands to benefit from creating a method of organization. Do it one room at a time, making places for the things you need and discarding the things you don't - be brutal! You'll find that when messes pile up, it's a lot easier to clean up. When everything has its place, it's a lot harder to misplace things - including your calm and sanity!

7. Make time for friends
While it can be tough to find time in the day/week/month/year to do everything we want to do, social networks are an important part of feeling fulfilled. Think about it: part of the reason for pre-school is to get kids used to socializing - it's considered an important developmental skill. None of that changes as we grow older. Friends are important, and they offer a different kind of interaction than family members - or even people you're dating. Make it a point to have a "friend date" at least once a month, whether you rotate houses or simply go out - you'll walk away feeling needed and grateful for the people you've chosen to have in your life.

8. See the love around you
Love is an energy as much as it is an emotion. So when you're looking to "see" the love around you, it doesn't mean seeing couples. In fact, it doesn't need to be related to romance at all. If you become love, in the sense that your intentions are pure and you operate by doing what's good for your highest good (not necessarily having your way) - and you're kind to others, and appreciative of the fact that we all have strengths and weaknesses - you'll begin to feel what it is to experience love - by giving it. In turn, you will receive it from the world.

9. Commune with nature
Sounds a little frou-frou? It's not. Have you ever wondered why it is that when you go to the beach/forest/river you're overcome by a sense of peace and belonging? It's because you do belong. Osho (and a host of other spiritual writers, advisers and philosophers) suggest that if you get out into nature and feel yourself as a part of it, you'll experience benefits in your relationships with others - as well as the one you have with yourself. Understand that you are a part of the universal energy, and allow yourself to experience it. The ways in which you'll be enriched are countless.

10. Seek objective advice
Sometimes it's hard to see our own patterns. People go on for years and years making the same mistakes - and encountering the same situations over and over again - without stopping to think "maybe it's me." The universe presents you with the same lessons until you learn them. But if you're having trouble, it may be that you need someone else to help you see what you could be missing… and how you can change it. Remember, whether you know it now or not, we all create our own realities.

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August Forecast

Emotions and brainpower collide

Source: California Psychics

Romance sizzles as summer kicks into high gear. Although the Venus-Pluto clash can disrupt relationships at the start of August, other forces weigh in for most of the month to combine emotions (Venus in Cancer) and brainpower (Mars in Gemini) to help you express what you feel.

The twosome will also help you discuss troublesome issues with your sweetie, family, friend or boss. Just watch out for the explosive ménage a trois involving Mercury, Mars and Pluto on Auguest 25 and 26, which can cause small irritations to erupt into arguments - or more physical confrontations - especially for Aries, Cancer, Libra or Capricorn.

Planets in motion
If you feel like you're treading water instead of moving forward, it's most likely due to retrograde Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto. Retrogrades make us turn inward before we take our newfound knowledge, healing or sense of direction, out into the world. No worries - you'll feel a gradual acceleration of energy after Pluto turns direct on September 11, Jupiter on October 12, Neptune on November 4 and Uranus on December 1. Until then, focus on your inner life through meditation, dream analysis or therapy - whatever gets you in touch with your heart and soul.

Transit tales
Mercury transiting out of fiery Leo and into persnickety Virgo on August 2 favors practical, analytical discussions. It's time to examine your goals, down to the last detail. On August 25, the planet of talk transits into Libra, which favors discussions about justice, art and relationships.

Speaking of romance, Venus in Cancer can inspire you to create a beautiful ambiance at home, both for your own enjoyment and for entertaining. Family activities are also favored. Then passion takes over after Venus transits into lusty Leo on August 26.

Mars energizes brainy discussions and travel as it transits through Gemini. When it enters Cancer on August 25, homey endeavors and family interactions are energized. Finally, the Sun entering Virgo on August 22 focuses on health and service-related activities.

Lunar magic
The Full Moon eclipse in Aquarius on August 5 energizes friendly gatherings, community projects and humanitarian endeavors. The Aquarius motto "we are all one" gets us in touch with our similarities as a people. However, the eclipse makes you feel emotionally unsteady, so take some quiet time during the day and breathe. The New Moon in Leo on August 20 brings a new cycle of emotional expression, especially in relationships. It also inspires your creativity, playfulness and leadership ability.

Planetary highlights

August 1: Venus opposing Pluto can cause jealousy, secrecy, power struggles and financial issues to erupt, especially for Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn.

August 2: Mercury entering Virgo favors detailed, analytical discussions and agreements.

August 3: Mercury trine Pluto favors research, financial agreements and metaphysical discussions.

August 5: Full Moon eclipse in Aquarius energizes group activities, friendships and humanitarian endeavors.

August 10: Mars square Saturn erects a roadblock to taking action, especially for Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces.

August 13: Mars trine Jupiter energizes activities involving teaching and learning, spirituality, travel, and physical endurance.

August 14: Sun opposing Jupiter can prompt you to promise more than you can deliver, especially if you're a Taurus, Leo, Scorpio or Aquarius.

August 17: Mars trine Neptune favors taking action on your spiritual beliefs and creative ideas.

Sun opposing Neptune favors creative and spiritual activities, but can cloud your judgment, especially if you're a Taurus, Leo, Scorpio or Aquarius.

Mercury conjunct Saturn in Virgo favors detailed, practical discussions and analyses, but can stymie more personal communications.

August 18: Mars square Uranus prompts rash behavior and combativeness, especially for Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces.

August 20: New Moon in Leo energizes romance, creativity and activities involving entertainment and children.

August 21: Mercury opposing Uranus can trigger erratic communications, technological snafus and brilliant but impractical ideas, especially for Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces.

August 22: Venus trine Uranus electrifies romance and can produce love-at-first-sight scenarios, especially for Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.

Sun entering Virgo highlights activities involving work, health and service.

August 23: Sun trine Pluto favors taking a risk on creative projects and business proposals.

August 25: Mercury entering Libra prompts discussions or negotiations involving relationships, law and art.

Mars entering Cancer energizes activities and issues concerning home and family.

August 25 - 26: An explosive T-cross involving Mercury, Mars and Pluto can cause argumentativeness, subterfuge and power struggles, especially for Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces.

August 26: Venus entering Leo energizes romantic trysts and creative projects.

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Aries (March 21 to April 20)

Creature comforts will be few and far between on the 1st. Think of ways to be more productive at work on the 2nd. Emphasise your communication skills at a job interview on the 3rd. A group association comes to a close on the 6th giving you more time to write, compose, or draw. The 8th finds you taking better care of your health. Resist quibbling over minor details at work on the 11th. The 13th is ideal for group endeavours of all kinds. Resist the urge to lecture a friend on the 14th; you need to let them make their own mistakes. Depression could cast a shadow over your life on the 17th; prepare to ride out this storm. Be direct with a creative person who wants your opinion of their work on the 18th. Blurting out a secret on the 19th could have unfortunate consequences. Unexpected events could derail a work project on the 21st. A romantic interest could sweep you off your feet on the 22nd. Hard work and determination earn you a place in the winner's circle on the 23rd. Tread carefully with a male relative on the 25th. Don't let family interfere with your love life on the 26th. Plan a romantic outing for the 28th.

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Taurus (April 21 to May 21)
Resist the urge to flatter your supervisor on the 1st; only hard work will impress them. The 2nd is great for forming a business partnership. Trust your instincts with a love interest on the 3rd; admitting your ignorance will win their respect. A difficult work project finally comes to a close on the 6th putting extra money in your pocket. Let compliments soak into your soul on the 8th; they are well deserved. Trying to buy someone's affection will blow up in your face on the 11th. Push extra hard for a pay raise or lucrative job around the13th; your tenacity will pay off. Bossy behaviour won't go down well at work on the 14th. The 17th requires you to spend quality time with a child. Getting your dream job is a distinct possibility on the 18th especially if you showcase your creative talent. A money shortage makes you angry on the 19th; channel this energy in a positive direction. The 20th is ideal for buying or selling property. A friend's erratic behaviour could spoil your good time on the 21st. Listen to a friend's encouraging words on the 22nd. The 23rd is perfect for having a child or adopting one from a foreign country. Launch a home repair project on the 25th. Beware of angering a colleague on the 26th; you can't afford to make enemies in the workplace. The 28th is great for getting a medical check up.
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Gemini (May22 to June21)

You'll have more money for luxuries on the 1st, but hold off on buying anything expensive for another week, so you can have the fun of finding just the right gift for yourself. Communications with your family become more productive on the 2nd. You could get a generous loan on the 3rd, allowing you to buy a house or an expensive appliance. A diploma or certificate could be awarded to you on the 6th allowing you to find jobs in your desired field. It may be impossible to contain your anger at a relative on the 11th. The 13th is perfect for planning a trip or submitting a piece of writing to a publisher. You need to have a serious talk on the 17th with a relative who has hurt your feelings. You won't be able to get the freedom you desire from your employer on the 19th. Getting a new job that affords more independence is possible on the 20th but you'll have to fight for it. Money to start your own business could become available on the 22nd. Paying off a debt feels liberating on the 23rd. You will have to spend money to make money on the 25th. Financial limitations could prompt a childish temper tantrum on the 26th. An advertising campaign could prove successful on the 28th.
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Cancer (June22 to July23)
Your good looks could make a suitor jealous and possessive on the 1st. Be as detailed as possible when giving instructions on the 2nd. Honest answers to probing questions strengthen a relationship on the 3rd. Opening your own bank account will make a relationship feel less restrictive on the 6th. The 8th provides an opportunity to take compliments gracefully. Rebelling against stuffy rules could blow up in your face on the 11th. Encourage a friend to take a bold risk on the 13th. The 14th forces you to come to terms with extravagant spending habits. Speak to a financial manager about creating a budget on the 17th. Role playing could be blissful in the bedroom on the 18th. The 20th attracts a high paying job that allows you to work independently. Resist the urge to contradict an expert on the 21st. Be sure to wear something special to a social gathering on the 22nd, as all eyes will be on you. Overcoming a bad habit is the best gift you can give a loved one on the 23rd. Step up your exercise regime on the 25th. Dealing with family can be stressful on the 26th. The 28th is better for ironing out problems with a female relative.
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Leo (July 24 to August 23)

Spending more time on solitary pleasures proves blissful on the 1st, but may irritate your colleagues. Finding new ways to make money is favoured for the 2nd. Trust your instincts regarding a colleague on the 3rd. A promising relationship reaches an exciting new phase on the 6th; the two of you will be spending lots more quality time together. Chatting up an attractive love interest sends sparks flying on the 8th. A hidden enemy could be spreading rumours about you on the 11th. Devoting some quality time to your beloved proves blissful on the 13th. Don't lord your opinions over a business associate, lover, or friend on the 14th. The 18th is good for working on creative projects in the privacy of your own home. The 20th invites you to reinvent yourself by updating your look. Sudden expenses could force you to alter your budget on the 21st. Keep a business deal related to art, music, or entertainment a secret on the 22nd. The 23rd helps you find new ways to save money. Don't discuss your angry feelings with a neighbour or relative on the 25th. Bite your tongue when dealing with a passive aggressive man on the 26th. Accept a compliment with good grace on the 28th.

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Virgo (August 24 to September 23)
A power struggle could erupt in a romantic relationship on the 1st. Be sure to voice your opinion on the 2nd, as you have very good ideas about communicating with the public. The 6th brings an end to a mundane job assignment, leaving your schedule clear for bigger and better things. A friend's compliment is sincere around the 8th; let it sink into your bones. The 11th finds you arguing with a pushy authority figure; be willing to push back. You'll have a lot of duties heaped on your plate on the 13th but you're perfectly capable of handling them all. Don't overestimate your importance at work on the 14th; you can be replaced! The 17th finds you having a hard talk with a colleague who has been shirking their responsibilities. Putting an imaginative idea into motion gets you noticed around the 18th. The 20th affords a welcome opportunity to spend more time on solitary pursuits, even while your career is heating up. Resist the urge to criticise a close friend on the 21st; their ideas have more validity than you realise. The 22nd is perfect for attending a social event with the object of your affection. Dreams can come true on the 23rd, provided you stay positive and keep your nose to the grindstone. Don't lend money to a pushy friend on the 26th. You could earn money by selling handmade items around the 28th.

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Libra (September 24 to October 23)
Don't use your social position to unfair advantage on the 1st. The 2nd is good for solitary pursuits like reading, writing, and meditating. Trust your intuition with regard to a worrisome domestic situation on the 3rd. A creative project comes to a close on the 6th enabling you to take your artistic skills to the next level. Your ability to work independently attracts favourable attention around the 8th. Be ready to challenge an expert's authority on the 11th. Don't abandon a friend for a romantic outing on the 14th. Be realistic with regard to a work assignment on the 17th; the more conservative your approach, the better. Plan a glamorous overseas holiday on the 18th. Your expertise won't carry much weight on the 19th. The 20th is perfect for joining a club or getting involved with a humanitarian organisation. A colleague's erratic behaviour could undermine your productivity around the 21st. Mastering a software program or piece of electronic equipment will improve your job prospects on the 22nd. Launching a self improvement project on the 23rd will have magnificent results. Be ready to fight for a job that should be rightfully yours on the 25th. Be sure to attend a social gathering on the 28th; you will have lots of fun.

Scorpio (October 24 to November 22)
It's important to respect a person's experience on the 1st, even if you don't agree with their methods. Getting involved with a humanitarian organisation is favoured on the 2nd. Your words have a tremendous impact on a friend on the 3rd. The 6th brings an end to an emotional family matter, giving you more time for a romantic relationship. Ask a friend to write you a letter of recommendation around the 8th. It may be difficult to collect money that is owed to you on the 11th. The 14th warns against being too arrogant at work. Don't fall for a relative's sob story on the 17th. Trust your instincts with regard to a romantic encounter on the 18th. Your jealousy may be unfounded on the 19th. A career opportunity arrives on the 20th; the perks will be significant. A friend becomes irritated by your unreliable behaviour on the 21st. A romantic surprise lifts your spirits on the 22nd. Your strong work ethic brings a team effort to victory around the 23rd. The opportunity to go on an adventurous holiday becomes possible on the 25th. Set strong personal boundaries with an expert on the 26th or they could try to take advantage of you. Working independently causes your professional star to rise on the 28th.

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Sagittarius (November 23 to December 21)
Resist the urge to reform a friend around the 1st, as your attempts will only cause resentment. The 2nd is good for consulting a career's advisor or going to a job fair. Negotiating a pay raise or lucrative job is possible on the 3rd. You could come to an emotional decision on the 6th allowing you to take a more active role in an intimate relationship. The 8th invites you to put advanced knowledge to work. Don't bother arguing with a stubborn employer on the 11th. You'll make much better progress with your boss around the 13th when your powers of persuasion will be stronger. Attempts to educate a neighbour or relative will fall flat on the 14th. The 17th is excellent for negotiating a business deal. Encourage a business contact or romantic partner to follow their dreams on the 18th. A relative could embarrass you in front of your romantic partner on the 19th. The 20th is excellent for applying to school or planning a trip abroad. An impulsive relative won't listen to reason around the 21st. An unexpected gift or inheritance allows you to spruce up your home on the 22nd. The 23rd is perfect for vaulting up the ladder to success. Take the initiative with a love interest on the 25th. The 26th could spark an argument over political or religious values; try to remain respectful.
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Capricorn (December 22 to January 20)

Putting pressure on a lover will result in disaster on the 1st. Applying to school or submitting work for publication is favoured for the 2nd. A big cheque arrives on the 6th allowing you to take on a bigger and better job. If you're looking for love, you could find it at a bookstore or in a classroom around the 8th. An angry outburst at work could get you in trouble with your boss on the 11th; steer clear of confrontation. Hard work earns you extra money on the 13th. A power struggle over sex and money could erupt around the 14th. Be realistic about your financial situation on the 17th; this is not a good time to run up debt. You could earn money through your creative talent on the 18th. Let a business or romantic partner lead you through unfamiliar waters on the 19th. Try not to jump to conclusions about a relative or neighbour on the 21st. A spur of the moment outing proves thrilling around the 22nd. The 23rd prompts you to expand your horizons through travel or academics. Take a more assertive stance in a partnership on the 25th. The 26th forces you to strike a more reasonable balance between your personal and professional lives.
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Aquarius (January 21 to February 19
Don't talk down to a colleague on the 1st, or resentment will set in. Exploring intimacy issues will prove revealing on the 2nd. The 3rd is ideal for confronting fears about intimate issues, money, and power. You'll come to a powerful realisation on the 6th prompting you to make happiness a greater priority. Making a few decorative touches to your workspace will prove inspiring on the 8th. Don't bother arguing with a youngster around the 11th; just lay down the law. The 13th is ideal for exercising your creative talent. Take a partner's fears seriously on the 14th. A negative outlook could be affecting your love life on the 17th. The 18th invites you to explore a spiritual pursuit. A sudden expense around the 19th forces you to change what you do for fun. Impractical ideas about money could catch up with you on the 21st. You could get paid to make something beautiful or pleasant on the 22nd. You could benefit from an insurance policy, tax refund, or inheritance around the 23rd. If you're out of work, launch a job search on the 25th. The 26th challenges your cultural or religious assumptions. If you're looking for love, you could find it at a theatre or concert on the 28th.

Pisces (February 20 to March 20)

Don't cancel plans with a friend for the sake of a lover on the 1st. The 2nd is perfect for signing a contract or forming a business partnership. Getting some business training will prove profitable on the 3rd. You'll be able to state your feelings more freely on the 6th when a deep, dark secret comes out into the open. A loving email, phone call or note puts a spring in your step on the 8th. Resentments come to a head around the 11th putting a crimp in your love life. Your optimism prompts you to embark on a wild adventure on the 13th. Don't abandon work for play on the 14th. The 17th requires you to take a realistic approach to work. Keep a home decorating project a secret on the 18th so you can later surprise your loved ones. Your unreliable behaviour makes a male relative angry on the 19th. A job offer could be made around the 20th; this position will allow you to spend more time at home. News of an impending birth comes as a pleasant surprise on the 22nd. Encourage a business or romantic partner to overcome a bad habit on the 23rd. Take the lead in a romance on the 25th. Work becomes much more pleasant on the 26th. You could be granted extra job perks around the 28th.

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Imperfections by Sign

Manage those annoying habits

by Red

Source: California Psychics

Free Personal Horoscope - (Sara Freder)

Many people turn to Astrology in hopes of deciphering which Sun Sign indicates the perfect mate for them. Fire signs are cherished for their passion, while Earth signs are often sought out for their stability and sensuality. You can't beat an Air sign if intellect and lots of energy are your personal turn-ons, and if it's emotion you crave Water signs are definitely the way to go.

Each Sign of the Zodiac blesses those born under their watch with an infusion of characteristics and traits, but not every attribute is going to be perfectly charming. Every sign also has at least one annoying or undesirable trait. While these characteristics may serve us well in everyday life, they may also be amplified -or even cause problems - in our romantic relationships.

The truth is, it is highly unlikely that any one of us will ever find, or become, "the perfect mate." So, while no one is perfect, with a little effort we can learn to give those we love a little slack in these areas, and tone down some of our own bigger flaws as well, for the sake of our relationships.

Leo may shine as brightly as the sun, but Lions sometimes need to accept that they aren't necessarily the center of the universe. Recognize that when your ego expands, it can do so with enough force to clear a room.

Virgo is the sign of those who can literally worry themselves to death. What they may not realize is that when they are stressed, their worries tend to be expressed as powerful, painful criticism. These gentle beings don't recognize their own strength. A little self-observation - and restraint - can hold off a tirade of belittling complaints.

Libra believes everything can be balanced, but during the process may tip the scales narcissistically in one direction. When it appears that your partner is becoming unreasonable or too demanding, it would be wise to look at the situation in terms of "we," rather than "me." Do this, and the balance you seek may accidentally appear!

Scorpio has a thing for being in control, which translates into being controlling. Whether you know it or not, you are the masters of silent manipulation. We all know you like to finish on top, but when it comes to relationships, ask yourself if you're just in it for the game. Or is it really your partner's heart you're trying to win?

Sagittarius needs to recognize that their eternal restlessness is a personal issue, not a relationship issue. Your partner loves your free spirit and your independence, but they also want to feel like a part of your life. If you want love to last, then accept that relationship responsibility doesn't have to equal restriction - but it must encompass partnership.

Capricorn may believe that they are always right (and most of the time, they are!), but they should be open to accepting that their partner has the right to disagree. If you are a more insecure Capricorn, you must also understand that dependence doesn't create love security.

Aquarius independence can be hard for others to understand - so explain it to them! While there is no shame in being proud of some of your more eccentric behaviors and expectations, your guarded nature in love can come across as extremely cold and aloof. Trusting people with your heart may not come easily, but not trusting is likely to be even more painful.

Pisces often confuse pity with caring, and have a way of defining themselves by the burdens they bear. There is such a thing as "too much drama!" When you lose yourself in the lower vibrations of depression, you drag those you love into despair with you. Sometimes, dear Pisces, the best thing you can do for yourself is to learn how to simply suck it up - or let it go.

Aries could stand to learn that not every thought that goes through their head needs to escape their mouths. These high-strung, spirited souls can break down their partner with acid words, not realizing the pain they cause in their quest to be the boss. Aries, be mindful that your partner is supposed to be by your side, not running to catch up - or carelessly left behind.

Taurus tends to be stubborn to the point of uncompromising. In relationships, it is possible for them to get so caught up in their own ideas, material needs, and judgments that they forget they have a partner at all. So come up for air once in a while, and look at all the love around you!

Gemini may think at the speed of light, but they often forget that others don't. As articulate as this sign can be, they often have trouble expressing themselves when it comes to their emotional needs. Unless you are with a mind reader, you must consider taking the risk and asking for what you need, and telling the other person what it is that you fear.

Cancer can be crabby, and any Crab certainly knows how to hold a grudge. Some of these tender-hearted creatures would find life to be easier - and relationships more rewarding - if they would step back for a moment and grow a thicker skin. Lighten up! Forgiveness is much easier when you realize that those who love you aren't necessarily trying to hurt you.

Whatever your sign, both you and your mate will have some eccentricities. At the end of the day, you can both hide behind the sun sign excuse - or you can recognize that there is always opportunity to improve. If you can curb some of your quirks, your partner may follow your lead and do the same. You have nothing to lose - and you may have a whole lot to gain!

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Learning Life's Lessons

How to measure your soul...

Source: California Psychics

How can we know for sure when we've learned a life lesson? When do we see that we have successfully conquered an obstacle the universe has placed before us - as we move through our spiritual evolution here on earth? If, as our psychics say, life is our teacher and the earth is our classroom, how do we know if we've passed a particular course?

Mindfulness and awareness are key, our psychics report. If we are examining our lives - watching, listening, reflecting and using our intuition to understand the bigger picture that our troubles and trials are presenting us with - we can then take another step toward our soul's growth.

Here's how it works, Debra ext. 9596 reports. "We know we are going through a life lesson when we are so in the dark about ourselves and the direction life is taking, that it is beyond our comprehension… And, life lessons simply cannot be figured out - they must be endured and experienced."

"It's important to note that these life lessons are not punishments - they are situations created to help us let go of the things that do not serve our lives or our soul's growth," Shandra ext. 8627 reminds us.

"As we journey through life, it is very, very rare that a human soul will learn a life lesson from one trial," Debra continues. "So we can also look at repeating patterns for clues to what our lessons are. If it seems that you just keep attracting the same unwanted circumstances, you can be sure that you are dealing with a very valuable life lesson. Once you have truly learned and integrated a life lesson, you will naturally begin to live from it in a new and different way. You will experience a major shift in perception, and things will shift of their own accord, as if by magic."

The understanding that we have learned a lesson comes to us in different ways, our psychics point out, and they usually come with a sense that something has changed - that life is taking a turn for the better, or that we can finally relax with a sense of knowing.

It ranges from simply seeing that we've learned a big lesson - and then we move into a happier state of being, explains Judianne ext. 5129. Or, the obstacles we've been struggling with dissolve, Teva ext. 5141 points out. It can come to you in an "a-ha ' moment, where you feel as if a light bulb has gone off - you recognize what you've learned, and that it was hard - but now you feel at peace, Kimari ext. 5182 relates. Paisley ext. 9661 tells us that as we live with the lessons learned we begin to attract different and better situations and people into our lives.

Many of our psychics, including Stevie ext. 5181, add that along with the lesson learned, often comes a need to share it, to teach others and to be of service to those who need help along the way.

"We share the lesson with others who need our experience, our strength and our hope. We keep the gift of knowledge by giving it away. Those who are parents give a gift to their children by living healthier lives based on the lessons, and our offspring benefit by seeing us as the best we can be," Christian ext. 5175 explains.

But what if we go through the difficult job of learning the lesson, and then live as if we hadn't? We will just keep getting "whispers" that turn into bigger and bigger wakeup calls from the universe that get us to relearn or to integrate the lesson, Josepha ext. 5170 points out. "In my readings, my guides often work with people who find it hard to see the truth."

"The universe tailors lessons to fit our souls, exactly!" Debra reveals. "What often happens is that we end up repeating the same patterns and failures over and over again, until we are finally so sick of our circumstances that we do anything to change - and that is when we really learn."

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