Sexual Exploration

Why it's key to happiness

by Moira McMahonSource: California Psychics

Sex is one of the few universal experiences for nearly all adults, yet it's shrouded in mystery. Who's having it? How much is too much? What's okay and what's not okay? There are magazine articles, films and books upon books about how to do it, when to do it and how to pick the right person to do it with.

Yet something that's missing in all this hot frenzy is that sex starts in the brain. It starts in the individual. It starts with you. The roles we carve out in life and the lives we have in the bedroom are really one and the same because the way we do one thing is the way we do everything.

If you are a giving person in your friendships and workplace, chances are you are giving between the sheets. The same way, if you punish yourself with negative thoughts and self-loathing, chances are your sex life is probably not very satisfying. Your thoughts create your sexual being.

Sexual power
Have you ever met someone who isn't particularly good looking, but they exude a sensuality that everyone around them responds to? They know they are sexy and therefore they are sexy. They own their own sexual power and what's truly a turn on - is that they know themselves. And that is the key to feeling alive, sexual and free all the time. Being free in yourself. The exciting thing is that it works both ways. Your life can free your sexual side and your own sexual exploration can free you.

Fantasy rules!
So how do you open your sexuality to find your truest self? First, love every one of your fabulous fantasies. The mind is the greatest sexual playground of all. We can conjure up any number of scandalous, riveting, gravity-defying scenarios. Let your mind find what interests you and take note of it. Do you often imagine yourself in a dominant role in your fantasy life - or do you like to imagine yourself being dominated by another?

Often our fantasies put us in power in ways we can't obtain in our own lives. If you are usually the ringleader with your family and friends, your fantasies may put you in a place of passivity, or being taken care of intimately by another. Think of the stereotype of a bored housewife reading a romance novel... don't we all have a deep desire to express ourselves sexually?

Instinct
What "turns you on" comes from your intrinsic and the complete unique make-up you possess as a human being. Delight in the patterns you see in yourself. Use your fantasies to embrace every expression you have. Especially examine fantasies that are repetitive. What are they telling you? What should you seek in your life that you can have easily with your fantasies? Your sexual, creative and intellectual powers are the three interwoven ropes of your core self. Use each one to shed light on the other.

What next?
Once you're in tune with your instincts and fantasies, let research take you wherever it leads you. There is great freedom in finding your own personal truth. Your sexual life is part of that journey. You must understand who you are sexually in order to attract your best partner. But along the way, as you discover it, you are likely to attract any number of people into your path. Whatever your boundaries are about the physical sexual acts, each different dynamic you experience while dating and in close relationships are clues to who you really are.

Discovery...
Whether a casual night, a love affair while abroad or a long-term relationship - you will uncover lots of dynamics that work for you. Plus, you'll totally know when a dynamic doesn't suit you. To live your fullest life, you must be brutally honest with yourself about what suits you in your sexual life. For some, this means actually courting the person you really want - not what any book or friend has told you. For others, it means truly telling your partner what excites you and having the courage to hear what excites them too.

When you are in a place where you can share your fantasies with your partner and incorporate some elements into your relationship, you know you have found someone who accepts you for all that you are. That's a powerful connection.

Think back
Remember what kind of people you were attracted to when you were a teenager? At college? Now you may laugh at what turned you on. As we expand and grow, our curiosity can lead us to an even deeper understanding of our sexual selves. There's nothing to be lost by trying a tantra class or a nudist colony or anything you dream up. It's all really an exploration of self. You'll know what works for you and what doesn't. If you are in a committed relationship, talk to your partner. There are lots of classes and DVD's you can enjoy together. Be open to your partner's exploration, too. Don't be threatened by fantasies or curiosity. If your partner is sharing it with you, they are bringing it to you with a desire to enhance your relationship.

The big surprise to spending a little effort in expanding your sexual self is that it affects all the other areas of your life. Just as being in a bad relationship colors your career and other friendships, fully expressing your sexual self ignites your career and makes you more attractive to other people. And what could be more fun than defining your truest sexual desires?

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Is Love Primal? What psychics see in everyone

Source: California Psychics

We asked our psychic team what each has learned about love and life as a result of their career as psychics. They deluged us with answers. The most stunning insight was a universal understanding that we all want and need the same things in life, no matter what our life circumstances are.

Love is at the top of that list. Our readers also see trends in consciousness in our changing times. Not only are there the obvious worries about survival, which are making the news each day, but our psychics also see that more and more people seem to be involved in, or interested in pursuing, a more spiritual life. Read on for more insight...

"It doesn't matter who you are or what your basic beliefs may be, it's a very eclectic group of people who call for readings, seeking answers to how they can live in a more fulfilling way," reveals Lemuria ext. 5114. "I used to think that the majority of those people were drawn to the metaphysical and very open to their spirituality. But as the years have gone by I have seen that nothing could be further from the truth. I have given readings to people who practice the most conservative of religions, atheists, doctors, lawyer, scientists… looking for answers and perspective."

Life experiences are very much the same for every one, our psychics say. "After you listen to the same questions over and over again, you begin to recognize the common thread that runs through all of us and how alike we are really at the core," Rose Mary ext. 9549 understands.

"Whether you are rich and famous, struggling with money, no matter what country you are in or from, we all want to love and be loved… and find some sort of peace in life," Stephanie ext. 5119 points out.

"All humans have a need for connectedness and love. Men and women call and obsess about love and romance - and no one is ever too old to want it," Ariel ext. 9775 points out.

"Until I became a professional psychic I used to think that people were looking for success in life, however I have talked to thousands of people and 99% inquire about love," Josepha ext. 5170 reports.

"I had a great epiphany while working on the lines… about why love is so important to us. I think my thoughts were summed up best in the movie Practical Magic when Sandra Bullock's character talks about finding the right person and says, 'I just want to be seen…' It's not that she wants someone to see her great hair or face, she wants someone to see her very soul and to validate and cherish her energy. That is what we all really want, someone to see us and when they do, still love us and cherish us anyway." Tisha ext. 5145 describes.

Love and loss are another common denominator in this world. Our psychics tell us that it doesn't matter what your financial status is, or who you are. People find the strength and the need to have lost in love and go on. "I have clients in the entertainment industry, and even though the world knows their name they still want to talk about the same thing as the White House staff member or the single mom, whispering because she doesn't want to wake the kids. They all want hope about love," Rondalafay ext. 5102 tells. "They want to know that there is something bigger and lasting for them in their future."

"My clients understand that we all have the power to be in heaven or hell in the right here and now, but often they're not sure how to make the shift," Aylan ext. 9055 suggests. "And I have seen my callers get through the toughest times in love and loss with understanding and forgiveness - rather than bitterness and anger. Letting go of fear and living in balance with your higher self helps us attract people and situations of like consciousness - it allows you to bring better relationships into your life."

Taking a more spiritual path in love involves hope, resilience and the willingness to grow and move on. "I speak with people every day who have loved and lost and been badly hurt and yet they are still willing to open their hearts and love again," tells Dawn ext. 9777. "Hearing this over and over has opened my own eyes and heart," she discloses.

Our psychics believe that their ability to look into the hearts of their callers and see the good and the bad… is the ultimate education in life. "It can be shocking to see inside someone's heart. It becomes more difficult to judge people in a harsh or unyielding way," Jesse ext. 9027 discloses. "Fortunately you can see how the vast majority of people are really wonderful and simply yearn to be loved. The knowledge I've gained as a psychic has confirmed what I always believed - that deep in our hearts, whether we are straight, gay, married or single, we all want love and reassurance and the guidance to find it."

Have you found the love of your life yet? Let a psychic guide you. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here now.

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Soulmate or Imposter? Pay attention to details

Source: California Psychics

Who hasn't had a great reading about a new love, or some other good fortune, and wondered if maybe the psychic's timing was a little off - more out of impatience than anything else. It's not uncommon that when waiting for something as wonderful, exciting and life-enhancing as true love to finally enter our lives, we can be so overly eager to meet "the one" that we can mistake an imposter for the real thing.

"It's hard to break a caller's bubble, when they think they've met the soulmate you predicted they'd soon find," tells Miss Krystal ext. 9192, "but in reality, they've ignored the important details about the reading. The person they've met, or even gotten deeply involved with… doesn't quite fit the picture you had conveyed to them, because they didn't pay attention to the details. You just have to hope that they will trust your guidance and not get seriously sidetracked along their path and miss their true destiny in the meantime," the Clairvoyant, Empath and Medium suggests.

Julianne (not her real name) a 33-year-old French transplant, first called Miss Krystal with the one key question that was keeping her life from being truly perfect, "Where is my love life going?"

Miss Krystal could see that Julianne was actively dating several men. "It looks like fun, but there's no substance…" her guides pointed out. She even suspected that the highly successful professional photographer was rotation dating (with a steady date on Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights) to keep from getting involved with anyone seriously.

Julianne laughed in agreement. "I'd never consider getting serious with any of these guys. I've already married and divorced two New York actor-types."

"I have a prediction," Miss Krystal announced. "My guides say your soulmate is coming in...You will meet him in 2009!" The intuitive saw the "future" couple as being surprisingly similar in their look, background and even financial status. They would both be interested in a permanent relationship, Miss Krystal revealed, and their connection would be accepting and relaxed. "This person will be a best friend."

Months later, Julianne called Miss Krystal back, saying that the psychic had been right on and she had met her soulmate - a nice easygoing guy, with French grandparents. "We're engaged!" she announced happily.

"Wow! After two months - that's fast!" the psychic responded. She was sure that this man was not Julianne's soulmate. She didn't see a wedding between them, so she found that encouraging. "But, I'm not the Dr. Phil of psychics, I couldn't just upset her and say, Hey get real! This can't be him. But, I did tell her to take it slow and to wait a year before getting married. Then I reminded her that it was only 2008 and that my prediction had been for 2009."

Months later Julianne called again. She had given her fiancé a pre-nuptual agreement, because she had always understood that any man who could take care of himself would agree to her need for financial protection. Julianne was well known in photography circles and commanded a hefty day rate for her work. She had family money and owned property in France. "The pre-nuptual didn't stop either of my other marriages, but Ross went ballistic. I ended up just giving him back the ring. During his rage, I realized that he knew more about my finances than I had ever let on… and apparently he'd been on his best behavior for months - I had no idea he could be so abusive!"

"Thank you for suggesting that I take it slow and set a wedding date far in advance," Julianne stated with a deep sense of relief.

"Well, I did say 2009 would be the year you'd meet your soulmate," Miss Krystal reminded her client. "And I still see that. This guy was an imposter, but luckily he revealed his true colors," she added relieved that Julianne had listened to her suggestions. "Your true soulmate, will be much like you. I keep seeing two tall people holding hands. It didn't fit that you described your fiancé as being shorter than you are."

Weeks ago, Julianne called Miss Krystal again. She had gone home to France to see her family and met a man whose own relatives lived in a neighboring city. Thierry also had been living and working in Manhattan for years. The attraction was immediate. Both had attended the same art school at different times and he was as financially solvent, if not more so, she reported with great relish.

"I see how different things are when two people truly connect. I can't believe that I had to go home to meet the right guy. He lives in my neighborhood in New York…we were born just miles from each other on another continent, we both speak fluent French - and he's tall. It's so much fun! You're right on Miss Krystal. You nailed this one."

And this time, Miss Krystal agreed.

Have you found your soulmate? Let a psychic guide you. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here now.

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1 (new) Night at the Museum: Battle of the Smithsonian / YouTube - Night at the Museum: Battle of the Smithsonian (2009 ...
Directed by Shawn Levy and starring Ben Stiller, Amy Adams, Owen Wilson, Hank Azaria, Robin Williams - Ben Stiller returns to the role of night watchman Larry Daly in this sequel to the 2006 family film NIGHT AT THE MUSEUM. This adventure takes the action to Washington D.C, where things at the Smithsonian aren't quite as quiet as one (20th Century Fox)

2 (new) Terminator Salvation / YouTube - Terminator Salvation Extended Movie Trailer
Directed by McG and starring Christian Bale, Sam Worthington, Anton Yelchin, Bryce Dallas Howard, Moon Bloodgood, Common, Jane Alexander and Helena Bonham Carter - John Connor is the man fated to lead the human resistance against Skynet and its army of Terminators. But the future that Connor was raised to believe in is altered in part by the appearance of Marcus Wright, a stranger whose last memory is of being on death row. Connor must decide whether Marcus has been sent from the future, or rescued from the past. As Skynet prepares its final onslaught, Connor and Marcus both embark on an odyssey that takes them into the heart of Skynet's operations, where they uncover the terrible secret behind the possible annihilation of mankind. (Warner Bros. Pictures Distribution)

3 (2) Star Trek / YouTube Star Trek - Official Trailer 2 [HD]
Directed by J.J. Abrams and starring Chris Pine, Zachary Quinto, John Cho, Ben Cross, Bruce Greenwood - The fate of the galaxy rests in the hands of bitter rivals. One, James Kirk, is a delinquent, thrill-seeking Iowa farm boy. The other, Spock, was raised in a logic-based society that rejects all emotion. As fiery instinct clashes with calm reason, their unlikely but powerful partnership is the only thing capable of leading their crew through unimaginable danger, boldly going where no one has gone ... (Paramount Pictures)

4 (1) Angels & Demons YouTube - Angels and Demons - In Theaters 5.15.09
Direct by Ron Howard and starring Tom Hanks, Ewan McGregor, Ayelet Zurer, Stellan Skarsgard, Pierfrancesco Favino, Nikolaj Lie Kaas, and Armin Mueller-Stahl - When Robert Langdon discovers evidence of the resurgence of an ancient secret brotherhood known as the Illuminati -- the most powerful underground organization in history -- he also faces a deadly threat to the existence of the secret organization's most despised enemy: the Catholic Church. When Langdon learns that the clock is ticking on an unstoppable Illuminati time bomb, he jets to Rome, where he joins forces with Vittoria Vetra, a beautiful and enigmatic Italian scientist. Embarking on a nonstop hunt through sealed crypts, dangerous catacombs, deserted cathedrals and even to the heart of the most secretive vault on earth, Langdon and Vetra will follow a 400-year-old trail of ancient symbols that mark the Vatican's only hope for survival. (Sony Pictures Releasing)

5 (new) Dance Flick / Dance Flick NEW Official Movie Site Trailer HQ
Directed by Damien Dante Wayans and starring Damon Wayans Jr. , Craig Wayans, Shoshana Bush, Essence Atkins, Affion Crockett - The Wayans brothers set out to parody movies like "Step Up" and "Save the Last Dance." (MTV Films, Paramount Pictures)

6 (3) X-Men Origins: Wolverine / X-Men Origins: Wolverine Trailer
Directed by Gavin Hood and starring Hugh Jackman, Liev Schreiber, Tim Pocock, Troye Sivan, Tahyna Tozzi - "X-Men Origins: Wolverine" tells the story of Wolverine's epically violent and romantic past, his complex relationship with Victor Creed, and the ominous Weapon X program. Along the way, Wolverine encounters many mutants, both familiar and new, including surprise appearances by several legends of the X-Men universe. (20th Century Fox Distribution)

7 (4) Ghosts of Girlfriends Past / Ghosts Of Girlfriends Past - Official Trailer [HD]
Directed by Mark Waters and starring Matthew McConaughey, Jennifer Garner, Breckin Meyer, Lacey Chabert, Robert Forster - Celebrity photographer Connor Mead loves freedom, fun and women... in that order. A committed bachelor who thinks nothing of breaking up with multiple women on a conference call, Connor's mockery of romance proves a real buzz-kill for his kid brother, Paul, and a houseful of well wishers on the eve of Paul's wedding. Just when it looks like Connor may single-handedly ruin the wedding, he is visited... (Warner Bros. Pictures Distribution)

8 (5) Obsessed / YouTube - Obsessed Movie Trailer
Directed by Steve Shill and starring Beyonce Knowles, Idris Elba, Ali Larter, Jerry O'Connell, Christine Lahti - Derek Charles, a successful asset manager who has just received a huge promotion, is blissfully happy in his career and in his marriage to the beautiful Beth. But when Lisa, a temp worker, starts stalking Derek, everything he's worked so hard for, are placed in jeopardy. (Sony Pictures Releasing)

9 (7) Monsters vs. Aliens / YouTube - Monsters vs. Aliens [HD-TVSpot]
Directed by Rob Letterman. Conrad Vernonand starring Reese Witherspoon, Hugh Laurie, Seth Rogen, Will Arnett, Rainn Wilson, Kiefer Sutherland and Stephen Colbert - A motley crew of reluctant mutant heroes are recruited to save the earth from the evil alien Gallaxhar. (Paramount Pictures)

10 (6) 17 Again / YouTube - Zac Efron in '17 Again'
Directed by Burr Steers and starring Zac Efron, Leslie Mann, Matthew Perry, Michelle Trachtenberg, Melora Hardin - What would you do if you got a second shot at life? Class of 1989, Mike O'Donnell is a star on his high school basketball court with a college scout in the stands and a bright future in his grasp. But instead, he decides to throw it all away to share his life with his girlfriend Scarlett and the baby he just learned they are expecting. Almost 20 years later, Mike's glory days are decidedly behind him.... (Warner Bros. Pictures Distribution)

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Weekly LoveCast How deep is your love?

Source: California Psychics

Flirting and other communications are lively on Monday. Emotions deepen (or get out of control!) by mid-week. Passion sizzles on Friday, but romance has a discerning vibe over the weekend. Is it time to get serious?

Week of May 25 - 31, 2009

Taurus: Monday is a good time to discuss money and look for a moneymaking opportunity. A heartfelt expression of love inspires romance mid-week, although a balanced perspective may be difficult on Wednesday. Throwing a party shows off your style on Thursday or Friday. Your mystique and sensuality fire up lust this weekend!

Gemini: Your wit makes you irresistible on Monday, so show off your braininess! However, love needs more depth of feeling mid-week. A moneymaking opportunity may come your way, too. A trip or flirtatious message revs up romance toward the end of the week. A cozy locale and haute cuisine inspire romance this weekend.

Cancer: A secret may be revealed at the start of the week. A combination of sexy and sweet makes you hard to resist mid-week. Emotions will be over the top on Wednesday, though. A dash of drama makes passion percolate on Thursday and Friday, so be daring! Witty flirtatiousness and a trip for two inspire romance this weekend.

Leo: A group gathering can inspire a romantic interlude at the start of the week. Sensitivity and words from the heart make love bloom mid-week. Your powers of attraction soar toward the end of the week. Friday is an especially good time for a sexy encounter! A leisurely massage and subtle ambiance rev up romance this weekend.

Virgo: A brilliant idea brings kudos (and romance?) on Monday. A gathering of friends uplifts you mid-week. Look for romance during a group activity, too. A courageous demonstration of feelings fires up passion toward the end of the week, so express yourself! Your powers of attraction inspire romance this weekend, so reveal your true self.

Libra: A faraway connection may prompt a romantic interlude at the start of the week. A spiritual activity or discussion about the future can deepen love as well. Romance seems irrational mid-week. Plan a rendezvous (or look for someone special) on Thursday or Friday. Fine food, music and ambiance inspire romance this weekend.

Scorpio: Naughty flirtatiousness makes passion sizzle on Monday. An intuitive insight mid-week can illuminate the future and guide your love life, so heed your inner voice. Your willfulness heightens or derails a passionate interlude on Thursday or Friday, when feelings can get out of control. Subtle sexiness fires up passion this weekend!

Sagittarius: A twosome affair can energize you on Monday, so plan something fun with your sweetie. Getting real about your feelings deepens intimacy mid-week. Think about your ideal home life and share your thoughts. An exotic locale, cultural event or class revs up romance mid-week. A quiet, sexy ambiance inspires passion this weekend!

Capricorn: Flirting at a work gathering or during a healthy activity can bring romance at the start of the week. A rendezvous mid-week can deepen your relationship, but your partner may get irritated easily. Passion skyrockets on Thursday and Friday. You're craving adventure this weekend, so grab a friend or lover and hit the road!

Aquarius: You're a magnet for romance at the start of the week. Promoting your creative project can be fruitful, too. Revealing your feelings inspires love on Thursday. The end of the week is an excellent time for a true love connection - or to find someone new. During the weekend, analyzing your relationships can remove blocks to manifesting love.

Pisces: Entertaining for two energizes you at the start of the week. You're in the flow and irresistible mid-week, when your imaginative sense of style draws admirers. The urge for a lavish night out (club? concert? fine restaurant?) overtakes you on Thursday or Friday. Love feels scattered on Saturday, but heartfelt talk can deepen love on Sunday.

Aries: Your words draw admirers on Monday, so express yourself! A cozy rendezvous at your abode makes love bloom mid-week, so create an enticing ambiance. Getting creative in the bedroom is sure to heighten passion toward the end of the week. Lending a helping hand or indulging in a spa treatment inspires romance this weekend.

Are you looking for the real deal in love? Let a psychic guide you in a reading today. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here now.

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