My Next Reading

Building a bond with your psychic
by Arim Keil
Source: California Psychics

On my 35th birthday, I was at a breaking point: I wanted a family, and I needed my career to blossom. After a year of financial struggle, and numerous dates I was saddled with a feeling that no matter what I did, the things I wanted were just not coming my way any time soon. So I gave myself a long, thorough reading with Michael.

Things happened fast
The first reading turned me 180 degrees out of negative fear and into a deep confidence I had admired in others but had yet to display myself. After learning from Michael that I would have children, a husband, a home, and an abundant career that used my creative gifts, I was launched into four months of bliss. One thing followed the other. Michael told me that my play would be a success, and it later had a reading in New York with a company that is continuing to develop it for production on both coasts. When I talked to Michael I hadn't even finished it!

Michael told me that my money challenges would be met soon, and I wouldn't be thinking about money as much by the end of that year. Could those years as a "struggling artist" - and the bank account to prove it - really be over? As I was pondering this, my old boss got promoted and without my knowledge fought to secure my new salary as her replacement. I returned from New York to a 30-percent raise, and I was one giant step further ahead in my career.

And then came fear
Wham! The force I had not been prepared for hit like a stone: Fear. Huge, terrible, hurt-your-stomach fear. If these things were happening, would I actually be in a gulp - relationship - soon? Michael had told me that someone with the name Steve would come into my life in May, and we would have a discussion about, of all things, chopsticks. Chopsticks?

I went into panic. Was I ready? Did I really want what I thought I wanted?

And then, Steve showed up - three times. A new woman at work set me up with her friend, Steve. Within a day he emailed and asked me to dinner… and asked if I wanted to eat with chopsticks or a fork. My heart raced. It had to be him, right? The next weekend, I meet a Steve on the dance floor. We danced to the song "Turning Japanese." Does that count? Then at work a new man came into the office. His name was... Steve. I passed him chopsticks at lunch. I was so confused!

A call for reassurance
I decided the one person I could really talk to about this was Michael. I needed reassurance. I needed connection. I needed to know that leaving behind my old life of struggle and stepping into this new magical time was what was really happening, and it wasn't all going to stop. I was deep in the fear of…success.

So I placed the call. Michael knew who I was right away, and he could sense that what he had warned me of in the first reading was coming to pass. He told me that I had to walk into my fear, or I would miss all the best moments of my life. He told me that nothing bad was going to happen. And right there, I relaxed. I was the one not letting the relief in - and I could change that! This really was my life, and it was turning out better than I could ever have imagined.

A return to bliss
The first thing that Michael said was that Steve would be back in my life in a week or so, and he would explain what had kept him. It would be the "Steve" who had emailed me for dinner and mentioned chopsticks. I was relieved, deeply. I had hoped he was the one. What about these confused feelings? Michael explained that I was completely unfamiliar with a life with no internal negative voice cutting down my efforts. This was why things didn't feel the way I thought they would.

The negative voice that had left after the first reading was gone, and had been replaced by open space. Like a new butterfly, I didn't yet know how to fly, but I was free, and I would soon be taking flight. Suddenly, I achieved that same bliss, and I asked Michael how to keep that good feeling. He told me I had to choose to be there, and that nothing magical would put me there - only my choice.

A great feeling came to me. I was not a victim of my success. I was the owner of my success! Michael saw that. Now I did, too.

Two weeks later, Steve emailed me. He had been on a deadline at work, but hoped we could see each other again. I smiled to myself. It was just as Michael had predicted, and it was just what I wanted. Calling him a second time had put me right back into alignment, ready to receive all that I was meant to. Thank you, Michael!

Have you found your bliss? Let a psychic guide you in a reading today. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here now.

Ukrainian online dating business model?

Lugansk has few illegal fake agencies that work behind the closed doors. They don’t give any of their contact details; they do not provide clients with any trustworthy information, they don’t have advertisements. The pictures of their beautiful clients they put in different free internet sites. Many of their clients are married young women. They are not unfaithful to their husbands and do not look for a partner for creating a family. So, why do they address to the dating agency? The answer is simple and horrifying – is the money. This is it! The work of Lugansk beauties is also simple and does not really bother them. They just bring their photos to the agency and that’s all. The rest is the task for their agency. They decide on what web-site to put the newly came girl’s picture, they write letters to her trapped fiance and so on. As a rule they receive lots of letters from the foreign clients and the fiances (if I can say so) on the wings of love fly to Lugansk to see their beloved ones. Finally, the couples have a meeting and… confused fiances get a cold look of their Lugansk beauty instead of a sweet kiss. They loyally pay money for personal translator service, driver, apartment found by their baby-girls and stay alone with their dreams. At the meantime, their brides honestly get their “share� for every deal from their translator who works for the agency. Usually, the fake bride gets some per cent from the whole sum given by her fiance. And actually, her salary depends on how much generous her fiance is.

Well, this is a sad story about Lugansk’s beautiful women and their fake dating agencies. I take all the responsibility for the reliability of this information and it’s checked by myself. In two similar agencies that I attended as a fake client I got the whole information about how the agencies of such kind work and how their brides should work in their team. I told them that I’m married hiding the facts that could make them suspicious and disclose my intensions. As I told before, I will not describe all the details. However, it made me even the more striving for realizing my purpose. And now I’m gonna do everything for the creation of a real, legal and professional agency that could help any girl of Lugansk to find her man. The one she could give all her love, passion, tenderness, faithfulness and beauty.

Oxana Gaertner
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Technology Killing Love?

Finding the right balance
by Christina Julian
Source: California Psychics

It's been reported that 20 million people per month engage with online dating sites like Facebook, Twitter, eHarmony, and countless others. Economic strife is only fueling the numbers of people who are looking for love in all the online places.

Even web-savvy socialites and celebrities like Charlie Sheen and Matthew Perry don't seem to be impervious to online dating. In an age when technology continues to drive our dating tendencies, could it also be killing our chances for love?

Technology has become the vending machine of the dating future. Instead of selecting snacks, you can pick out potential love interests until your heart is content. Turn to Google for checking someone out before securing a date, lean on Facebook to answer your late-night date search cravings, and - once you've landed the date of the century - pop online and Tweet about it.

Like the good old vending machines of days gone by, if you don't like what you see there's another goodie lurking in the background just waiting to be picked. With little to no effort you can blast your experiences to your inner and outer circle of friends, work associates, and beyond. Is this really a good thing?

Vendible love
Social networking sites enable you not only to search your own network, but also your friends and their friends - and on and on until you find exactly what you're looking for. But this endless bounty of options may have rendered you unable to decide on anyone because your machine (laptop, PDA, iPhone) is stuffed with one too many dateable treats. While sites and services are arguably the quickest route to a good time and a wealth of dating opportunities, it's time to determine if it's a trip worth taking when true love is your destination.

Tradition vs. technology
Before the information highway took over the dating freeway we were left with good old-fashioned in-person communication (and chemistry!) to determine if someone was worthy of our attention. A lot of that tradition has slipped by the wayside, and now friends have a podium to weigh in on who you should and shouldn't date, leaving a smidgeon of space for your own personal views. Traditional dating grants some obvious perks, like nonverbal cues that let you assess how hot - or not - a date is. It's also one of the only ways to determine if you've got chemistry, something that your keyboard will never know.

While your options for locating viable candidates in "real life" are greatly reduced from their online counterparts, conventional means grant you something the Internet can't - a live person! People's actual presences, unlike their photos, can't fudge the visual truth. And look at it this way, by opting to forgo a love search on the web, you're freeing up a ton of time to connect with someone on a more personal level.

Data-ble bases
No one can argue that the Internet offers one of the broadest and most extensive methods for your dating search. It's been estimated that on a per-year basis over 100,000 couples tie the knot in relationships that began online. With a click of the keyboard and a tap of the mouse, the options are limitless. A quick stop at Google can unveil a tome of information that you might be delighted or frightened to know about someone. Social networking sites go a long way in cutting down the screening process for the datable population. If someone is a friend of a Facebook friend, we sometimes feel safer. The ease of exiting an uncomfortable situation or relationship is also a snap online. Relationships can even stop before they ever get a chance to start if someone posted a goofy comment on someone's wall, or if the company they keep in their online profile or photo gallery leaves you less than amused. And let's admit it: technology can be a hoot! Who hasn't had fun playing cat and mouse with someone at lunchtime, or as you kill time at Starbucks?

Un-private relationships
However, the web-based way of dating might not be for everyone. For the good and bad of it, your life goes on display, and - sort of like the Energizer Bunny, people's virtual lives keep going, and going and going - long after the relationship may have stopped. Does Jack really want to know what Jill has been up to after she left him for Ken? In deciding to date online it's safe to assume that your private life may not stay private for very long. And while it's great to be "friended" by the guy you've been eyeing at the gym, it doesn't feel nearly as nice when he "unfriends" you after you lap him on the indoor track. If you've ever been privy to a post-break up online rant (hello Mr. and Ms. Barker!) the public nature of the web only heightens the intensity and scrutiny of things.

The Internet, like any good tool, is only as good as its operator. So think before you click, and use it wisely as you pour through your dateable/un-dateable database of potential love interests. But once you've narrowed things down to manageable levels, stop clicking your keyboard and phone pad long enough to make a date: get to know your would-be squeeze, live and in person, because human connection - in every sense of the word - is what dating is and should be all about.

Will you find love online? Let a psychic guide you. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here now.

In The Mood For a Reading?

Psychics talk about emotions
Source: California Psychics

Of course you call a psychic for a reading when you're anxious, heartbroken or confused... you need clarity! You want to know that tomorrow will be a better day - and that something good will happen for you again.

But is there a chance that your troublesome mood will influence the outcome of your reading? Yes and no, our psychics answer. Here's what you need to know.

Psychic Ellie ext. 9936 maintains that staying positive and filtering out the mood of the caller, as much as possible, is one key to being a professional. "It's important to allow them to express their worry or sadness. All clients seek spiritual comfort and assurance at one time or another."

Professional psychics know how to see past your moods, but there are circumstances when a caller might actually block the possibility of receiving a clear reading simply by being too emotional. And yes, if there's a huge cloud hanging over your head when you call, it may take longer for a psychic to get to the heart of your matter. But for the most part just being upset, or depressed or tearful, is expected - and emotions are respected.

"It's true that callers in a good mood tend to be more open to receiving messages and are more attentive to the details of their readings," Joy ext. 5142 reports. "They can concentrate on the circumstances I see surrounding their situation and appreciate the outcome, whether it's good news or bad." On the other hand, she explains, clients who call in upset tend not to be interested in their readings unless they hear what they want to hear at that particular moment. "I also notice that when I'm interrupted while delivering a spirit message, the messages are less informative."

While many of our psychics report that a caller's bad mood can slow down the reading process, the reading itself can help raise a caller's spirits and actually raise their energy vibrations. Some of our psychics work with their clients on an emotional level to help them get past their blockages.

The good news is that anger or great sadness can clear out as clients begin to accept some clarity on their issue… and often the information and answers then begin to flow more readily, many psychics including Tammy ext. 9380, report. "Readings often raise a person's vibrational frequency."

But there are people who will call in an overwhelmingly troubled emotional state that seriously limits what the psychic can do. If a caller is seriously blocked, Ariel ext. 9775 explains, a reader can only see so far into their energy and may end up stumped. If a caller's energy is good, the psychic can sometimes see very far into the future.

"It's the reason that people who are falling in love often get such good readings - they offer no resistance," Tammy adds.

"We all try to see past moods… but sometimes I have to get a client grounded so I can get to the truth. Otherwise as an Empath, I can pluck everything they're thinking right out of their head and the reading becomes confused. I may have a caller wiggle their toes, click their heels, focus on their feet… so I can get their overwhelming feelings to settle down," Nunu ext. 9504 explains.

Some clients just need to cool off before getting a reading, Alison ext. 9885 suggests. "People who have just been in an argument, are still fuming and not listening. They may get so impatient that they just hang up."

Anger and depression tend to block the flow of energy and energy is what psychics tune in to, with their various gifts and tools, to get the messages callers need to hear from a reading.

"I have had clients who call desperately upset, insisting that I tell them one thing, when I am simply getting another… But I refuse to tell a caller what they want to hear, just to appease them. Many calm down after I assure them I have absolutely nothing to gain by telling them anything other than what I am picking up," Paisley ext. 9661 reveals.

Moods can also influence a psychic's work day. All psychics need downtime to recharge their own energy. If they are exceptionally tired or moody, they won't log on if they believe their accuracy might be affected.

"When I'm in a good mood myself, I feel more connected to the higher realm and am able to deliver messages faster and more clearly," Joy reports, echoing the amazing interconnectedness that psychics describe as being a part of their overall work - when their minds are free and clear.

Are you stuck in any old thought patterns? Get a psychic reading to clear your way today. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here now.