Sunday, June 14, 2009

Spiritual Thinkers: Khalil Gibran

Infinite peace and poetry
by Marie-Thérèse Abou-Daoud

Source: California Psychics

If you've ever looked for a good quote about love or relationships, or for some meaningful spiritual guidance, chances are you've run across a verse or two from Khalil Gibran's The Prophet, first published in 1923. In fact, many a wedding has dispensed favors displaying Gibran's wise words on unions:

"And stand together yet not too near together

For the pillars of the temple stand apart

And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow ..."

Translated into more than 20 languages, The Prophet is Gibran's best-known work, and is illustrated with his famous charcoal drawings.

East meets West
Perhaps it was the sum total of the struggles of Gibran's early life growing up in poverty in Lebanon and later in Boston: his difficult relationship with his father, the loss of two siblings and his mother within two years, and his influential relationships with two inspiring women (who both rejected his marriage proposals) that fueled his keen insights. The wisdom expressed in The Prophet truly represents and expresses the meeting of Eastern and Western ideals.

Early on he was mentored by a priest in his native Lebanon, and later his American art teachers encouraged and recognized his artistic talents. He slowly entered the cultural artistic world in Boston by meeting people who led him to stage his first art exhibition there in 1904. He later studied with sculptor August Rodin in Paris, finally settling in New York City in 1912. Though he died there at the age of 48 from cirrhosis and tuberculosis, his wish was to be buried in his native Lebanon.

A prophet
Written in beautiful verse, The Prophet, which brought Gibran international acclaim, contains 27 much-quoted chapters, including: "On Children," "On Love," and "On Death." Though he wrote and illustrated the book, it appeared to be channeled through divine inspiration, leading many in his circle to refer to him as a mystic. Some have even called his poetry metaphysical. History has proven Gibran to be an artistic philosopher, as The Prophet has never ceased to be in print. One of the most popular books of the 20th Century, the slim volume gained popularity during the counterculture of 1960s, and has inspired lovers, artists, and writers for decades.

Today
If you go to Gibran's work for guidance now, you will find that his writing has not lost its relevance. Perhaps ahead of his time, perhaps transcending all time, his words touch us no matter what the exterior changes in society are… no matter what our religion or nationality. Stripped of today's technology and global transformations, we are all human, and there is more to us than even we sometimes comprehend, according to Gibran. This is in part the message of The Prophet's chapter "On Time":

"Yet the timeless in you is aware of life's timelessness,

And knows that yesterday is but today's memory and tomorrow is today's dream."

The next time you're looking to understand the mysteries of life, or need to be reminded of your significance in the grand scheme of life and love, pick up any of Gibran's writings, where you'll find infinite peace and inspiration.

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Saturday, June 13, 2009

A Relationship Test


Do uadreams really want to help couples or is their only motivation money - to date they have not replied to my e-mail below as to whether they have advised Lidiya P. #8135 the reason why I cannot continue writing to her. There is obviously no support to their clients :-(

From:

To:

Sent: Thursday, June 04, 2009 2:28 PM

Subject: uadreams - what was the reason? previous transactions with same credit card alright?

Hello Olia Simina

I replied to Lidiya´s last letter last thursday and attempted to purchase 20 more e-mail credits using the same credit card as previously used during the last 18 months. To my surprise my credit card company said that they have suspended my account without giving me a reason. They have told me to write to them which of course will take time to clear up.

I have never exceed my limit with them and purchases have always been paid back in full when the statement was presented. Further my company is a shareholder in xxxxxxxxx Bank the issuer of the credit card.

These things can be sorted out but not the damage to Lidiya and myself. After the row between you and UaLadys.com and the blackout last year you know my feeling on the obstacles that have been put in our way and NOW THIS.

I think that I had a premonition that something like this was going to happen which is why I requested that your company let us exchange personal details of surname and address.

Can I ask you to let Lidiya know what has happened please

Thanking you in anticipation

Regards

John N

Только в случае Лидия СЦУР в интернете - www.johnandlidiya.blogspot.com

У uadreams действительно хотим, чтобы помочь супружеским парам или является их единственной мотивацией деньги - на сегодняшний день они еще не ответили на мой е-майл ниже того, они сообщили Лидия П. # 8135 причин, почему я не могу продолжать до ее написания. Существует явно не на поддержку своих клиентов :-(

От: xxx @ XXXXXXXXXX

Кому: Оля Simina: NOC

Отправлено: Четверг, Июнь 04, 2009 2:28 PM

Тема: uadreams - в чем причина? предыдущие операции с кредитной картой же порядке?

Здравствуйте, Оля Simina

Я ответил на Лидия последнего письма в прошлый четверг и пытались купить еще 20 электронная почта кредитов с использованием той же кредитной карты, как ранее использовались в течение последних 18 месяцев. К моему удивлению моя кредитная карточка компании заявили, что они приостановили мои счета без объяснения причин мне. Они сказали мне, чтобы написать на них, конечно, потребуется время для прояснения.

Я никогда не превышали предел моих с ними, и покупатель всегда были возвращены в полном объеме, если заявление было представлено. Дальнейшая моя компания является акционером XXXXXXXXX Bank эмитентом кредитной карты.

Эти вещи могут быть отсортированы, но не в ущерб Лидия и я. После подряд между вами и UaLadys.com и затемнения в прошлом году Вы знаете мои чувства на препятствия, которые были на нашем пути, и теперь этот.

Я думаю, что у меня было предчувствие, что что-то, как это произойдет, и поэтому я просила, чтобы ваша компания давайте обмениваться личными данными фамилию и адрес.

Могу ли я попросить вас, чтобы Лидия знать, что произошло, пожалуйста,

Выражая Вам в ожидании

Привет

Джон Н

Friday, June 12, 2009

The Relationship Test

See if yours is thriving

by Moira McMahon
Source: California Psychics

The newness of a relationship can take you for a nice long ride of discovery, excitement, sexual activity and pure emotional buzz. Down the road, the relationship settles in a little and eventually you live happily ever after, right? Well, not quite.

Maintaining a long-term relationship takes a lot of things - like effort, time, forgiveness, accommodating another person, courtesy, holding your tongue with the in-laws and oh, yeah, love! You don't need to take the emotional temperature of your union every hour, but you do need to know when your connection is under the weather.

With most things, if you treat it quickly, you can head off a lot of suffering. Ignoring it will only make it worse and the healing process longer. Unfortunately, some unions go past the point of no return and both people have to separate to heal. And you don't want that, so take this quick test to see how your're doing before you reach a point of no return.

Examine these three areas:

1) Touch and sex
How's the physicality of your relationship? Sex and love are not the same thing. But if you love someone in a deep romantic way, you should be pretty excited to have sex with them! One telling sign of your physical connection is that you are having sex often enough for both partners. Withholding sex isn't fair. Insisting on sex isn't fair either. You have to talk about each other's sexual needs and be willing to at least, the very least, meet halfway. You must understand that sexual needs are human and incredibly important. Despite vows and good intentions, if someone is not having these needs met over a period of time, chances are that they will get these needs filled elsewhere.

On a daily basis, are you hugging, kissing, holding hands or even touching each other at all? If your physical connection is totally lacking you must be willing to seek help or you are not valuing your relationship. You are packing up emotionally to leave or to be left. Start with hugging. Start with kissing. Then you'd better start talking.

2) Active listening
How's the listening (not the talking)? We all want to be heard, but if your main goal in your relationship is to have someone to listen to you, you are not practicing love, you are turning your partner into an audience. Both people have to be more committed to listening than talking to go the distance. Are you both actively listening to each other? This means not watching television, looking at a hand-held device, interrupting or burying yourself in distraction.

Active, empathetic listening is a desire to hear what your partner is saying and engage in an emotional understanding of what is being said. You are affirming your connection by simply making eye contact, nodding and giving attention. Let them know they are being heard. If you are asked for advice, give it. But you'll find that asking for advice rarely happens. Most of the time, the partner just needs to be heard by the person that matters most in their life - you.

3) Mutual interest
Finally, is the relationship unfolding or imploding? Healthy couples engage in perpetual courtship. That doesn't mean more coffee dates with a series of questions and answers (but it could!). The bottom line is shared experience and communication. It means experiencing life together and getting excited to see how your partner reacts when you give a present, how they tend to your life, the fun of travel to a new place together. With each experience you are learning more about your partner. The union is still unfolding, both familiar and new all at the same time.

The mistake that people make is putting the responsibility for this on the other person without ever taking it upon themselves to surprise, delight, seduce and deepen the relationship by their own actions. Things grow or atrophy. If you are not still discovering your partner, the relationship will temporarily go into a dormant period.

This is a crucial time to turn things around. Both people must increase their commitment to put the relationship first. Even if there is a general feeling of boredom, beneath the surface a slow anger is building. It can look active or passive, but it's there. Commitment is a beautiful thing. But if either partner feels they are committed to something that no longer delights them, it will feel like a ball and chain.

Asking these questions can feel painful if you think you are coming out on the less healthy end of things. One way to alleviate this pain is to bring it to your partner. Ask these questions together. Often one partner's perception of how it's going can differ greatly from the other.

If you both agree that one area - or all areas - are at a crucial period, stop everything and go back to basics. Why did you come together in the first place? What can you do to put the relationship first again? At times like this, the gift of love calls for practicing more love than ever before. And the practice of love is the most sacred work you can ever do.


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