A Relationship Test

Do uadreams really want to help couples or is their only motivation money - to date they have not replied to my e-mail below as to whether they have advised Lidiya P. #8135 the reason why I cannot continue writing to her. There is obviously no support to their clients :-(

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Sent: Thursday, June 04, 2009 2:28 PM

Subject: uadreams - what was the reason? previous transactions with same credit card alright?

Hello Olia Simina

I replied to Lidiya´s last letter last thursday and attempted to purchase 20 more e-mail credits using the same credit card as previously used during the last 18 months. To my surprise my credit card company said that they have suspended my account without giving me a reason. They have told me to write to them which of course will take time to clear up.

I have never exceed my limit with them and purchases have always been paid back in full when the statement was presented. Further my company is a shareholder in xxxxxxxxx Bank the issuer of the credit card.

These things can be sorted out but not the damage to Lidiya and myself. After the row between you and UaLadys.com and the blackout last year you know my feeling on the obstacles that have been put in our way and NOW THIS.

I think that I had a premonition that something like this was going to happen which is why I requested that your company let us exchange personal details of surname and address.

Can I ask you to let Lidiya know what has happened please

Thanking you in anticipation

Regards

John N

Только в случае Лидия СЦУР в интернете - www.johnandlidiya.blogspot.com

У uadreams действительно хотим, чтобы помочь супружеским парам или является их единственной мотивацией деньги - на сегодняшний день они еще не ответили на мой е-майл ниже того, они сообщили Лидия П. # 8135 причин, почему я не могу продолжать до ее написания. Существует явно не на поддержку своих клиентов :-(

От: xxx @ XXXXXXXXXX

Кому: Оля Simina: NOC

Отправлено: Четверг, Июнь 04, 2009 2:28 PM

Тема: uadreams - в чем причина? предыдущие операции с кредитной картой же порядке?

Здравствуйте, Оля Simina

Я ответил на Лидия последнего письма в прошлый четверг и пытались купить еще 20 электронная почта кредитов с использованием той же кредитной карты, как ранее использовались в течение последних 18 месяцев. К моему удивлению моя кредитная карточка компании заявили, что они приостановили мои счета без объяснения причин мне. Они сказали мне, чтобы написать на них, конечно, потребуется время для прояснения.

Я никогда не превышали предел моих с ними, и покупатель всегда были возвращены в полном объеме, если заявление было представлено. Дальнейшая моя компания является акционером XXXXXXXXX Bank эмитентом кредитной карты.

Эти вещи могут быть отсортированы, но не в ущерб Лидия и я. После подряд между вами и UaLadys.com и затемнения в прошлом году Вы знаете мои чувства на препятствия, которые были на нашем пути, и теперь этот.

Я думаю, что у меня было предчувствие, что что-то, как это произойдет, и поэтому я просила, чтобы ваша компания давайте обмениваться личными данными фамилию и адрес.

Могу ли я попросить вас, чтобы Лидия знать, что произошло, пожалуйста,

Выражая Вам в ожидании

Привет

Джон Н

The Relationship Test

See if yours is thriving

by Moira McMahon
Source: California Psychics

The newness of a relationship can take you for a nice long ride of discovery, excitement, sexual activity and pure emotional buzz. Down the road, the relationship settles in a little and eventually you live happily ever after, right? Well, not quite.

Maintaining a long-term relationship takes a lot of things - like effort, time, forgiveness, accommodating another person, courtesy, holding your tongue with the in-laws and oh, yeah, love! You don't need to take the emotional temperature of your union every hour, but you do need to know when your connection is under the weather.

With most things, if you treat it quickly, you can head off a lot of suffering. Ignoring it will only make it worse and the healing process longer. Unfortunately, some unions go past the point of no return and both people have to separate to heal. And you don't want that, so take this quick test to see how your're doing before you reach a point of no return.

Examine these three areas:

1) Touch and sex
How's the physicality of your relationship? Sex and love are not the same thing. But if you love someone in a deep romantic way, you should be pretty excited to have sex with them! One telling sign of your physical connection is that you are having sex often enough for both partners. Withholding sex isn't fair. Insisting on sex isn't fair either. You have to talk about each other's sexual needs and be willing to at least, the very least, meet halfway. You must understand that sexual needs are human and incredibly important. Despite vows and good intentions, if someone is not having these needs met over a period of time, chances are that they will get these needs filled elsewhere.

On a daily basis, are you hugging, kissing, holding hands or even touching each other at all? If your physical connection is totally lacking you must be willing to seek help or you are not valuing your relationship. You are packing up emotionally to leave or to be left. Start with hugging. Start with kissing. Then you'd better start talking.

2) Active listening
How's the listening (not the talking)? We all want to be heard, but if your main goal in your relationship is to have someone to listen to you, you are not practicing love, you are turning your partner into an audience. Both people have to be more committed to listening than talking to go the distance. Are you both actively listening to each other? This means not watching television, looking at a hand-held device, interrupting or burying yourself in distraction.

Active, empathetic listening is a desire to hear what your partner is saying and engage in an emotional understanding of what is being said. You are affirming your connection by simply making eye contact, nodding and giving attention. Let them know they are being heard. If you are asked for advice, give it. But you'll find that asking for advice rarely happens. Most of the time, the partner just needs to be heard by the person that matters most in their life - you.

3) Mutual interest
Finally, is the relationship unfolding or imploding? Healthy couples engage in perpetual courtship. That doesn't mean more coffee dates with a series of questions and answers (but it could!). The bottom line is shared experience and communication. It means experiencing life together and getting excited to see how your partner reacts when you give a present, how they tend to your life, the fun of travel to a new place together. With each experience you are learning more about your partner. The union is still unfolding, both familiar and new all at the same time.

The mistake that people make is putting the responsibility for this on the other person without ever taking it upon themselves to surprise, delight, seduce and deepen the relationship by their own actions. Things grow or atrophy. If you are not still discovering your partner, the relationship will temporarily go into a dormant period.

This is a crucial time to turn things around. Both people must increase their commitment to put the relationship first. Even if there is a general feeling of boredom, beneath the surface a slow anger is building. It can look active or passive, but it's there. Commitment is a beautiful thing. But if either partner feels they are committed to something that no longer delights them, it will feel like a ball and chain.

Asking these questions can feel painful if you think you are coming out on the less healthy end of things. One way to alleviate this pain is to bring it to your partner. Ask these questions together. Often one partner's perception of how it's going can differ greatly from the other.

If you both agree that one area - or all areas - are at a crucial period, stop everything and go back to basics. Why did you come together in the first place? What can you do to put the relationship first again? At times like this, the gift of love calls for practicing more love than ever before. And the practice of love is the most sacred work you can ever do.

Does your relationship pass the test? Let a psychic guide you. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here now.

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When Will You Be Loved?

How to make it happen
Source: California Psychics

So love keeps passing you by despite all the effort you've put into manifesting ways to meet your one true match. Even though you've made it perfectly clear to the universe that you want a soulmate, you're still solo. Your common little wish for long-term love is obviously being ignored.

Or is it? That's the question we put to our psychic intuitive team this week - and apparently it's the subject of many of their calls. Surprisingly, most of our our intuitive's answers fell into three categories:

1. You've got to have faith.
2. You may really not be ready - yet.
3. You appear to be chasing love away.

Whoa you say… who wants to hear that? Since you've tried everything else, (or so you say), why not consider taking a deep down look into your consciousness and see if maybe there's an awareness of the possibility that it has something to do with you. This simple acknowledgement may be just the thing to change your luck in love.

The reason, tells Shauna ext. 9010 is that love really is all around us. You have to believe it's there or you'll never receive it. But some of us just don't realize that we are putting up resistance - like not having faith, not believing in our lovability, expecting true love to come in a specific package, or protecting ourselves from all love because of one love that turned painful in our past.

Josepha ext. 5170 hears from people everyday, who have a deep belief in their subconscious that they are not worthy of love and subconsciously act as if they don't have a chance at finding it. "I hear the doubt in their words and their voices - and often it's so clear that others must spot it, too."

Josepha had a client who was crazy about a man she works with. She honestly believed she would never have a chance with him, because every other woman in the office had eyes for him, too. She picked up that he was attracted to her, but she freezes around him. Josepha's caller had closed the door to the possibility of even getting to know this man, by considering herself to be insignificant. "When I get callers like this, I work on making them believe in themselves… so that they begin vibrating in what I call a different attraction mode," the psychic reveals.

"When we empower these strong feelings of unworthiness it's hard to bring in love," Aylan ext. 9055 suggests. "These negative belief systems are so deeply ingrained in us that we may not have even the slightest clue that we are giving off a life force that lacks the energy to bring in a good connection. The core problem is a lack of love for themselves. Even if people just say 'I love you' whenever they look in a mirror and try to believe it - they will feel changes."

Psychic Shauna adds, "People and miracles respond to invitations. It's as if you need to say, 'My love, I know you're out there and you are invited into my life now.' Then be patient, because belief is a process. The magic only happens if you trust it. You can tiptoe into the process with less resistance if you use affirmations or prayer." She describes a friend who meditated twice a day for six months to clear her energy for love. "Some days she was diligent and other days she felt discouraged. Then one day a man visiting from Greece sat down next to her and their hearts jumped. They eventually ended up together."

Some people are so invested in their stubborn ideals of exactly who the love of their life will be, that they won't even consider someone who doesn't make it all the way through their check list, our psychics disclose. They set their expectations too high, or won't even consider someone they don't see as being "perfect" for them.

"This crops up so often in readings. Callers will say, they only date MBA's or tall people, or thin people with green eyes," Maryanne ext. 9146 points out.

"Callers have these fantasies about soulmates that don't allow for any differences. They can be so bullheaded about only having relationships with people who are just like them. They won't even give love a chance if the person drives the wrong car or likes the wrong foods. The truth is that the experience of accepting the differences between two people and making compromises enhances the love experience and keeps couples from getting bored," Ron ext. 9545 explains.

"All of this is just fear holding people back," Jacqueline ext. 9472 understands. "Callers worry about making a mistake in love… perhaps it didn't work for their parents, or maybe they really don't want to be in a relationship at all!" she suggests as other subconscious motivators for letting love go by.

The best way to know what the answers are for you is to ask yourself the questions, then listen deep down to what the real answers are. Then trust yourself and be fine with whatever you learn.

Are you still looking for love? Talk to a psychic for insight. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here now.