Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Make Retrogrades Work

Use them to your advantage

Source: California Psychics

Retrogrades are the Universe's way of giving you a "do-over," and, even more important, letting you know that one is needed. Whether it's the (three-times-a-year) chaotic mess generated by Mercury Retrograde, or the slow, deep transmutation of Pluto's (typically 6-month) backward motion, retrogrades can work to your advantage.

How is that possible, you ask? Because they are a time to go back over everything relating to the planet and its effect on your birth chart - whether you want to or not! When astrologers refer to retrogrades, they're actually talking about a change in a planet's apparent motion, so that while the planet's orbits don't actually change, how they appear to move relative to the Earth's orbit does.

Retrogrades have a general effect on daily life for everyone, on the stock market, international relations, personal relationships, the economy and so on, especially when the retrogrades form an aspect to other planets, or a new or full moon, or an eclipse.



When they really pack a punch, though, is when they move back and forth across planets, angles and points, and through houses, in your personal astrological chart. There are several stages for a retrograde's influence on your chart, and each has its own opportunity for growth and learning.



Retrograde phases
1. The first phase is when the planet moves forward across one or more of your chart points, called direct motion. Especially if it's one of the outer or transpersonal planets - Saturn, Chiron, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto - its arrival can cause a bit of an uproar, presenting you with challenges specific to the nature of the planet transiting and the points and houses it affects (called aspects).

2. Next, just before starting backward, the planet will appear to stand still. This is called stationary retrograde and, if it happens close to one of your chart points, its effect can be very intense, highlighting the issues involved even more.

3. Then there's the retrograde period itself... this is your opportunity to go back over choices you made and actions you took when the transiting planet first hit your chart points. The urge to look deeply into causes and effects, and to rethink and rework actions and choices is particularly strong when the retrograde has direct contact with your planets. During the retrograde, as much as possible, stick to reexamining issues from the past rather than starting on new ones. If you take on new ones you'll just have to rethink them again later.

4. Next is stationary direct, which is much like stationary retrograde in intensity. It's a pause point - time for you to gather up your retrograde research and journals and plans and get ready to move forward with them.

5. Finally, during the new direct motion, you get to test your new theories and resolutions to see if they work better than your first reactions to the planet's presence.

When you realize that the outer planets will contact your personal chart points very few times in your life, and that each of them spends between 30-45% of the time in retrograde, it's easy to understand why a direct-retrograde-direct experience of one of them can be momentous. Those passages usually mark profound change and soul growth.

Retrograde planets
Use this thumbnail guide to know what to expect when a retrograde planet hits your chart:

Mercury - Back up your hard drive! Mercury goes retrograde three times a year, each time for three weeks. The reason people say don't sign contracts during Mercury retro is because you'll have to renegotiate later. Better to just wait. Day to day communications do pretty well, the more important it is, the more carefully you should proceed.

Venus - This planet is about far more than love and romance - and retrogrades tend to highlight this. Venus retrogrades about every 18 months for a little more than a month, and during that time she asks you to look at what you value: in yourself, in relationships, in your career, in your surroundings, in the things you buy and the places you live and work.

Mars - Mars is about ego, self-actualization and how you apply your energy. It spends a little less than 3 months of every 2 years and 2 months in retrograde motion. If you don't pay attention to the retrograde's requirement for pause and reflection before action, you can find yourself involved in accidents and arguments.

Jupiter - Retrograding about 30% of the time, Jupiter turns inward and becomes more spiritual and deeply philosophical. It's a time to re-evaluate your big plans - any kind of expansion in the affected area - root out phoniness and focus yourself on heartfelt inner reasons for your actions and decisions, rather than the drive for external success. Any kind of big spending can go awry if done thoughtlessly.

Saturn - In backward motion for about 140 days, retrograde Saturn wants you to think before saying "yes" to anything. Look at your current commitments, projects and promises and be sure they are still relevant and, if not, say "no" and move on. Keep extra responsibilities at a minimum and, remember, focus on what's in place and avoid taking on new responsibilities.

Chiron - Because of its elliptical orbit, Chiron's retrogrades are less orderly than other planets. While Chiron reaches out to heal others when direct, it looks within to apply its powers of acceptance and healing when in retrograde. Finding compassion for yourself is the task, and it offers an opportunity to find healing, or at least understanding and acceptance, for recurring personal issues.

Uranus - Watch out! During Uranus backward motion, about 42% of the time, you will probably astound friends and family with your unpredictability, and your stronger-than-usual quest to understand "why." Its urge toward freedom is more powerful when it's in retrograde, and Uranus will root out and blow up the excuses, self-deceptions and fears which keep you from being wholly authentic in the areas it affects.

Neptune - Neptune, which moves backward about 43% of the time, is one of the very best of the do-overs, because since Neptune rules denial and deception, its retrograde makes it far easier for you to spot and understand subtle signals. Your inner voice is clearer and your perspective is enhanced. The kicker is that if you don't use the time well, you can be haunted afterward by uneasiness that's hard to pinpoint.

Pluto - Since Pluto spends about half the year moving backward, it's not felt as vividly unless it hits your chart, and then it acts like a roto-rooter, thoroughly (and sometimes uncomfortably) flushing out and cleansing your inner landscape. As they say, resistance is not only futile, it will make the experience far more uncomfortable. Far better to cooperate with Pluto's agenda and spend your time reaching deep into your psyche to eliminate old patterns and beliefs that are holding you back.

So no matter what planet is in retrograde, it is up to you to use this powerful transition time to learn your lessons and strengthen your soul. Pretty soon, you'll have so many things sorted out in your life, you'll have no problem sailing gracefully through all the planetary shifts we encounter every day.


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Tuesday, June 2, 2009

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A Marriage-Go-Round

A psychic sees the truth

Source: California Psychics

If you have a good marriage, sometimes you just need to trust the relationship, especially when the communication and listening skills between you and your partner appear to be breaking down. Partnerships can be rife with misunderstandings, but if you know from experience that yours is fundamentally strong, don't allow family, friends or acquaintances to stir the pot, Diamond ext. 9379, a fourth generation psychic strongly suggests.


Sometimes misunderstandings are really quite innocent, but without keeping up the work it takes to sustain a marriage, which often just comes down to listening, even the best of marriages can run into trouble, she warns.

There are times when callers just can't see situations clearly, reports Diamond referring to a recent new client Pilar (not her real name), a fitness instructor in her early twenties, who had been happily married to Edward (not his real name) for three blissful years… until she noticed a sudden change in her husband's behavior.

Upset, perplexed and having lost faith in her husband much too quickly, Pilar reached out to Diamond asking, "Is my husband cheating on me?" Without a moment's hesitation she continued with a litany of questions: "What's her name? Why is he doing this? Why doesn't he answer his cell phone? Why can't I get in touch with him at the office when he says he's working late? What happened to us?"

As the Medium, Clairvoyant and Clairaudient tuned into Pilar's voice and began envisioning the answers, she did not get a dishonest image of Edward with a scandoulous secret love life. Instead, she saw white lab coats, surgical scrubs and doctors with medical instruments in their hands. "He's not having an affair, he's seeing a doctor…" It was an answer Pilar would not accept.

Pilar cut Diamond off, saying that her vision was impossible.

"It's a very clear image," Diamond reiterated about the scene that seemed to be playing out in front of her as if it were on a movie screen. "In fact I see him sneaking out to see the doctor."

Pilar called Diamond back later the same week, certain that she would have a different message for her. But again, the psychic's vision was the same. Pilar then told Diamond that she had confronted her husband about the cell phone and office phones. She didn't believe anything he said, so she hired a deterctive. All of her best girlfriends were sure that Edward's sudden, unusual behavior indicated a straying husband.

"You don't need to hire a detective!" Diamond told Pilar completely sure of the truth of her visions. "He is going to tell you what he is hiding from you, and when you find out, you will be quite surprised. It's not a bad thing," Diamond tried to assure her caller. "I don't see any reason to distrust him so intently."

The following week, Pilar called Diamond again to tell her that she had confronted Edward again. He denied the affair, but gave her no further explanation for his unusual behavior. Out of sheer frustration Pilar had packed her bags and was now staying with her best friend.

"You are making a mistake. You need to work on your communication with Edward and help him understand that his mysterious ways are making you doubt the strength of your marriage. This separation did not have to happen!"

Pilar disagreed saying, "I'm getting proof. The detectives should have something for me soon! "

The following morning Diamond got a call from a man she had never spoken to before. He said his wife had just moved out on him and he didn't have a clue as to what had happened. Diamond surprised herself with an instant adamant response to the caller (who said his name was Sam)... "This separation did not have to happen!"

Sam told her that he had been planning a surprise for his wife. Diamond told him that she saw him having some sort of medical procedure. "I also see that you have an usually strong support system," the psychic revealed.

Sam responded, "Wow! Yes, it's all true. My employees have helped me keep every thing top secret. My wife doesn't have a clue... I can't believe you know all of that." He began to relax even more with Diamond and excitedly told her, "I'll be frank with you, I had an operation to reverse infertility. I don't want my wife to know because I don't want her to be disappointed if it doesn't work. We've been trying to have a baby…"

At that, Diamond spoke quickly, hoping her call with Sam wouldn't end before she could say, "You need to tell her the truth now!"

Then she heard the click of the phone.

To Diamonds great surprise and relief, Pilar and Edward contacted Diamond together just days later. "We can't believe how good you are," they chimed together happily. "I'm back home," Pilar said, "and, you won't believe what just happened. We were going over the bills together and I admitted that I had been calling California Psychics. Edward laughed and admitted that he had done the same."

Edward broke in to the conversation, saying, "Except you might remember me as Sam! How were you able to tell both of us the exact same thing?"

"I'm just the messenger," Diamond said tearfully. "I kept seeing that you had a loving, faithful union and I didn't want you to give up on that."

The couple admitted that they had learned some big lessons. And, Diamond is still in awe that the universe chose to send both callers to her.


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Monday, June 1, 2009

Weekly LoveCast Reveal the real you!

by Cortney Litwin


Source: California Psychics

Cooperation is the challenge for romance at the start of the week, when willfulness and jealously can get in the way of love. Passion heats up mid-week and then skyrockets during the Full Moon in fiery Sagittarius this weekend. Dare to be yourself!

Week of June 1 - 7, 2009

Gemini: Romance is hot and complicated at the start of the week, when compromise is difficult. Promote your creative project on Tuesday. Your instincts take over to rev up passion mid-week. A sexy night out fires you up on Friday! The twosome energy of the Full Moon helps you strengthen or attract a relationship this weekend.

Cancer: An issue with a family member may arise on Monday. A cozy night in at your abode can deepen love on Tuesday. Romance skyrockets mid-week through Friday. Creating an enticing ambiance can inspire a passionate interlude. Your courageousness inspires love during this weekend's Full Moon, so do something out of the ordinary.

Leo: Rash words can derail romance (and other relationships) on Monday, but a heartfelt expression of love makes romance bloom on Tuesday. A clash of wills is likely mid-week, when your stubborn streak emerges. Passion is hot but complicated on Friday. Your powers of attraction draw multiple admirers (or one special paramour!) this weekend.

Virgo: A problem over money may arise with your sweetie or business partner on Monday. Your creativity (in the bedroom?) enhances a romantic encounter on Tuesday. Your mystique makes you irresistible mid-week. Flirting heats up passion on Friday. It's party time during the Full Moon this weekend, so show off your influence by arranging a gathering.

Libra: You're feeling especially willful on Monday but ready for a loving interlude on Tuesday, when your powers of attraction are strongest. Feelings are deep and instinctual mid-week. Romance needs an expression of your deepest feelings on Friday. Your words inspire romance during the Full Moon this weekend, so show off your eloquence.

Scorpio: You feel unusually antsy for a change on Monday. An intimate locale makes love bloom on Tuesday. An argument turns into a passionate encounter mid-week. Your powers of attraction draw an array of admirers on Thursday and especially on Friday. Naughty playfulness makes you hard to resist during the Full Moon this weekend.

Sagittarius: Confusion during a group endeavor can be irritating on Monday. Friends bring joy on Tuesday. A sexy, serene ambiance makes passion soar mid-week. Your intuition is especially strong on Friday, when you might feel like reminiscing about a past relationship. Your charisma is on fire during the Full Moon in your sign this weekend.

Capricorn: How your career affects your relationship will be the focus at the beginning of the week. Tuesday is a delightful time for a romantic rendezvous. Romance can be found during a gathering of friends mid-week. Friday is especially hot. Throw caution out the door and dare to express your feelings during this weekend's Full Moon,

Aquarius: Love can be found during a class or spiritual activity at the start of the week. You'll be irritated easily on Wednesday. A work project can turn into a romantic evening on Thursday or Friday, but things can get complicated. A gathering of friends or community activity prompts a romantic interlude during this weekend's Full Moon.

Pisces: An artsy atmosphere inspires love at the beginning of the week. Share your creativity and sense of style! You're a magnet for romance mid-week, when your lusty side comes out to play. Just know you deserve the best in a partner. Your whimsical sense of humor draws admirers during the Full Moon this weekend.

Aries: A clash of wills can derail romance at the start of the week. Love resumes its sweetness on Tuesday. Intimacy deepens mid-week, and a spontaneous tryst can rev up romance on Friday. This weekend, the Full Moon makes you antsy for a romantic escape, so plan a getaway with a lover or friend.

Taurus: Your sense of style draws admirers at the beginning of the week - if you don't get into a tug-of-war over control. Your sensuality fires up a romantic rendezvous mid-week, either with your sweetie or someone new. This weekend's Full Moon brings out your wild side, so go for what (or who!) you want.

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